Dear Anita,

THANK YOU for taking the time to look back and post this, how kind, thoughtful, caring and dedicated you are to the progress of others.  You truly are a gem – and the best part about this is that you know your ability/progress/wisdom but remain humble.  Thank you for being you.

To your thoughts:

1) No, she was not happy when I was in her life.  I understood a delusion: having me in her life made her MORE happy, so of course I must remain.  Truth: she is unhappy if I am in it or not, she is unhappy whether this or that, she is unhappy PERIOD.

2) Yes, so much vicious attacking, always under the premise of “oh your poor mother” look how much she’s been through how could you be so cruel and mean.  Cradle her like a baby or puppy and caress her back to good happiness (yeah right!)