Dear Anita that makes sense, but is the love language even there? It is hard to believe that it was even ever there? But yet when I spoke about that child it was there. So it must be.  Do you feel it is possible to get that love language back?

In regards to your reply I read it a few times. Do you still believe that fear is you? Do you believe perhaps, that you lived in a way in the past so sick and not well, that you still have much fear associated with that time?