Are you hoping after therapy she will come back to you? I hope she does. It sounds like you both really helped each other but she is in denial and it is easier for her to continue as is, rather than face facts. Sounds very much like me. But it IS easier to continue as it is what you know and safe and it takes time to admit things to yourself sometimes. She is probably scared of her feelings and what that means. And maybe also family pressure I don’t know. How old is she? Or do family play an important role in her life? It sounds like you are doing everything right and if it is meant to be, it will be.