Dear Anita,

thank you for your hard and thoughtful work with me today. Thank you for giving me your candid advice and opinions. Thank you for also knowing me well enough (by now) so that I ca. Speak to you knowing you will understand. That is a breath of fresh air.

The aspect of not diving into guilt about my past mistakes with her. So very true. I didn’t have the growth and awareness I do now. And therefore to hold myself to guilt and feel that I should just be okay with passive aggressive behavior is senseless. That is a lose lose situation.

Also it is not the fault of neither my sister nor I- but a product of our upbringing as you stated.

I am heading home now. Luckily my husband is already home. We are going to have a deep thoughtful conversation this evening about all that I spoke to you about. No distraction.
I will update you tomorrow on it.

you know – you helped me a lot today. It isn’t about the decision itself today, but the concept of how to approach it. In the second aspect, of how there is much work to be done on my focusing on inner circle – and especially now more than ever – there is no room for any damaging behavior from anyone.

I appreciate today Anita. I will talk to you very soon. Enjoy your walk today if you are embarking on it soon.