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lindsey
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Anita

I don’t really know where to start.  It seems that having to rely on me or me having the kids during his time when he is not available is a big trigger for him.  Yesterday there were several emails sent to me-I felt they were unrelenting and to a certain extent kind of disturbing.  I will provide portions of his emails below:

Lindsey: “Ella is upset that her soccer cleats are too small and they hurt when she plays.  She prefers I tell you.  I’m going to buy her some new shin guards and socks mostly for practice.  She said she wants different shin guards”

Ex-husband: “I’m getting very frustrated by the tone of your emails. They are not at all indicative of our kids and seem very intentional on your part. I ask the kids and try everything on them every sports season.  I just did the same for both of them for baseball/softball and they have all new equipment.  This is also her last soccer season because of your decision and so investing in new equipment with a few weeks left makes no sense.  Interesting that you want to do that now in her last season after not brining her to the game last weekend.  You have pink socks of hers that I bought. I just don’t get it. Also her cleats fit fine with room”

Lindsey: Stop taking your crap out on me. I have no idea what to buy so I’m not going to worry about it.