Dear Addy:

You are welcome and good day to you too. I asked you: “no anger toward your parents, ever?”, and you didn’t answer my question by either intent or it just so happens that you didn’t. You are welcome to leave it unanswered, if you so prefer.

I wrote to you: “This makes me wonder if you felt stuck living at home with your parents…?” You responded with a question: “Hmm? What does this have to do with commitment issues?”- my answer: people fear committing to a relationship with another person because they don’t want to find themselves stuck with that person: not having an easy way out.

anita