Hi,
Wondering if i can have some advice or if anyone has experienced something similar.
Ive been in a relationship for 3ish years and have never looked at anyone else twice, very happy with my boyfriend. He isnt the most verbally affectionate type of person and never really ‘flirted’ with me in the beginning but i do feel loved by him and we get on super well. When we met, he was super into working out and physically attractive but he has stopped trying as much as he doesnt feel like he needs to ‘win me over’ anymore i feel.
Quite early on into knowing him he did behave slightly poorly regarding another girl but we had time apart and came back and since then have been together 3y.

Recently i went out with a friend and we both started speaking to a group of guys, the guy i was speaking to started more just like so our friends could chat, but we ended up getting on and i found him very physically attractive. He has been messaging me alot since we met and i cant help but feel excited when he messages and want to see him. He is very flirtatious with me and expresses alot of interest. What i find unsettling is that this isnt the first time a guy has been interested in me since ive been with my boyfriend, but for some reason i find it really hard to ignore this particular guy, and part of me really wants to see him. Any advice would be appreciated, Why has this guy suddenly got to me!