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Jimmy Clare is an autistic writer and speaker (Speaker of the Year 2026) who shares stories about self-acceptance, belonging, and life on the spectrum. He's the founder of CrazyFitnessGuy and host of The CrazyFitnessGuy Show. https://jimmyclarespeaks.com

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How My Life Got Better When I Stopped Trying to Be Normal

For most of my life, I had a second full-time job. Nobody hired me for it. Nobody paid me. But it ate more hours than anything else I did. The job was pretending to be normal.

I am autistic. Growing up, I didn’t always have that word for it, but I knew one thing for sure: I was different, and different was not safe.

Kids let me know early. I got teased and picked on, and more than once someone looked at me like I was a science experiment and asked if I was from another planet.

So I did …