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Rebecca is a certified health counselor through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and an attachment theory certified life coach specializing in nervous system regulation. She created the Wounds to Wisdom Pathway for working through attachment patterns in the body and has logged more than a thousand hours of private coaching alongside her own healing journey. She is the author of seven books and the founder of Wellness with Rebecca. Connect with her at wellnesswithrebecca.com.

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How to Stop Letting Anxiety Control Your Reactions

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“Physical self-awareness is the first step in releasing the tyranny of the past.” ~ Bessel van der Kolk

For years, I thought my anxiety was a character flaw. I thought I could think my way through it. Reason with myself long enough, and I’d finally get to the other side of it. I never did.

Every time I thought I had made peace with it, something small would happen, and I’d be right back in that place. Heart racing. Hands shaking. Anticipating a fallout in something that hadn’t even happened yet.

In my previous marriage, I learned to read a …

Escaping an Abusive Situation: The Hardest Parts and Greatest Lessons

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“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ~Rumi

I watched my son get hit by his father, and something inside me finally broke open.

Not broke apart. Broke open. There’s a difference.

For years, I had absorbed the chaos. I had made myself smaller, quieter, more accommodating. I had convinced myself that if I could just love harder, be better, try more, something would change. But in that moment, watching my child suffer at the hands of the man who was supposed to protect him, I understood with absolute clarity that nothing I did would ever …