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  • January 21, 2026 at 5:57 pm in reply to: Should we Separate?!? #454404
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    How are you, Dave???

    January 21, 2026 at 5:55 pm in reply to: Passing clouds #454403
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    I would so much like to read from you again, Zenith.. Hope you’re okay 👍

    January 21, 2026 at 5:52 pm in reply to: Feeling Stuck #454402
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    How are you, Mollie???

    January 21, 2026 at 5:50 pm in reply to: growing up – becoming adul / procrastination – in connection to childhood trauma #454401
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    How are you, Robi???

    January 21, 2026 at 5:48 pm in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #454400
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    I miss reading from you, me…?

    January 21, 2026 at 5:46 pm in reply to: The phenomenon of “helping someone excessively can make them turn against you” #454399
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    I wish I could read more from you, about the marriage you didn’t mention in your last update..???

    January 21, 2026 at 5:42 pm in reply to: Marrying an Indian man as a foreigner #454398
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    I would very much like to read from you again, Ana..?

    January 21, 2026 at 5:40 pm in reply to: What will my life be now? #454397
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    Bogart and I are thinking about you, Nichole.. well, at least I am. How are you???

    January 21, 2026 at 5:38 pm in reply to: The Struggle to Clarity #454396
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    How are you, Bea???

    January 21, 2026 at 5:35 pm in reply to: liking someone else #454395
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    How are you Renn, and how is your friend?

    January 21, 2026 at 5:31 pm in reply to: New Start; Finally ‘Okay’ #454394
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    How are you,Kane. I would like to read more about the progress you’ve been making, quite impressive given 👏 your young age.

    January 21, 2026 at 5:29 pm in reply to: Making some progress as the year ends #454393
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    Thinking about you, Miss L Dutchess, 2 months and 2 days since you posted last.

    January 21, 2026 at 5:25 pm in reply to: Time. Goes. By. Slowly..(prt 2) #454392
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    Thinking of you, Laven.

    January 21, 2026 at 2:03 pm in reply to: I just randomly and suddenly fell out of love #454387
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    Hey Confused:

    First, I’m glad you had a therapy session today. Second, what you realized and what she said today make sense to me.

    It’s a shame when we interpret love as Pressure and Responsibility (P&R) instead of as calm and being carefree.

    I think it’s about how love was introduced to us as children: something to earn or something freely given because we’re just, well, unquestionably lovable 🙂

    “Also, she told me that to her it seems like I have feelings from a ‘distance’ and when the other person comes too close, I don’t feel them.”- hmm. This is what I expressed to you.

    Because too close means P&R?

    🤍 Anita

    January 21, 2026 at 11:11 am in reply to: I just randomly and suddenly fell out of love #454378
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    It just occurred to me, Confused, that not knowing what AA or taproom mean, you may not be familiar with the.. alcohol culture, which is a very good 👍 thing because of the so very many deaths and injuries due to alcohol ²intoxication (traffic accidents, falls, etc.).

    So, of course, I will never recommend drinking alcohol.

    Another thing that occurred to me this morning 🌄 is that consulting AI, the way to support a person who is Confused and Overthinking, Ruminating- is NOT by analyzing the person, asI have done, triggering even more (paralyzing) overthinking, but to simply be a Consistent and Calm support source who will validate your feelings and offer you a safe, no-pressure space to express yourself- to offer you a space where you don’t have to think or feel any particular way, a place where how you think and feel is acceptable and valid.

    A place where you feel no pressure to take any action. To just be where you’re at.

    🤍 👌 Anita

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