THAT is priceless advice Anita thank you very kindly..there is reason in your message and what I look for, even if it’s beyond my understanding..forgiveness is where I am with her now, and in gratitude for the moments in time where beautiful unity was the order of the day, even if they didn’t last too long, something was still gained from the experience and the expressions we shared..

True and accurate, however we exchanged many photos and had lengthy video chats, and she saw me from every side..walking across the room or what have you, she said my disability wouldn’t matter but, obviously it did, if she had said beforehand that my condition would be a deal breaker, then I wouldn’t have agreed to date in the first place, she just spoke what she didn’t really mean is my point, and it just makes me wonder. Thank you for reading and also your thoughts on it..