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  • July 13, 2015 at 3:27 pm in reply to: I need help in clearing my mind , confused about my feelings about my ex .!!!!! #79782
    Annie
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    I understand how this must be difficult for you. Sometimes we can lose ourselves in relationships and even do things that we would not normally do. I think it’s important to acknowledge that we can’t change what happens to us, but we can change how we react to it. When you can acknowledge yourself, his acknowledgement will no longer be important. “Acknowledgement” should come from within because no other person can make us feel complete or happy unless we make ourselves happy first. You were you before he came a long and that person is still there, you just need to rediscover yourself. You might be surprised to find new things about yourself that have changed for the better. Be kind and patient with yourself.

    July 12, 2015 at 11:54 pm in reply to: I need help in clearing my mind , confused about my feelings about my ex .!!!!! #79734
    Annie
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    I don’t think that thinking of this as karma will help. You will just continue to beat yourself up. I’m in the same exact position as you are with your ex. I think you are forgetting about your own happiness. You think you are only happy when you receive responses from him and when he doesn’t respond you get upset. You should be happy with or without him. When you decide that you deserve to be treated with love and respect (which you deserve I assume because that’s what you give), then you will be ready to move on. It’s so hard, but after a while you begin to realize that you can still care for the person, but you deserve more than that. Good luck, just keep yourself busy and try to find out what makes you happy.

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