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September 5, 2015 at 6:59 pm in reply to: Lost in regret and disbelief after my dog died, unable to move forward. #82921
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Sarah,
I feel your pain – I have a pet and he is more precious to me than most humans !
You are an intensive care nurse and you made the right decision under the presented circumstances. What you feel now is loss and pain which causes regret of not having done enough !!. I have seen this happen up close in cases of human deaths which are sudden, and it causes the same trauma in the mind.
Please DO NOT beat yourself up. Human or animal – if it is time to go, it is time to go – NOTHING can stop it !!!
As with humans who cross over, pets are our angels watching over us and always with us in spirit.
Please read this short article – it will help:
http://www.petlosshelp.org/10commonquestions.htmlGOD bless !
BenzRabbitParticipantBenzRabbitParticipantGlad you found your strength !
GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantHate to mention this but you were intimate with your ex-husband a few weeks before the divorce ??
Anyway, done is done !
I agree with most above – think of the child and YOUR own future.
People preach religion easily to others but it is very difficult to raise a child as a single mother – it will change your world permanently – that is the hard reality of life.
GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantI second Bethany and Jo’s opinion !
Moving works for some or for a short time but most times the issues re-surface – in a ‘new’ location !!
GOD bless !!!
September 5, 2015 at 5:13 pm in reply to: My heart feels like I had an invisible bullet that went through it…help. #82896BenzRabbitParticipantHi there,
You are NOT going to hell – DO NOT let that poison take root in your mind !
The Bible is a good book, but there are several things in it that if applied to real life would send almost everyone to hell !!.
As Anita suggested above, take some time off and make a decision when you are at ease – your angels will guide you forward.
GOD bless !!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi pp,
Matt and Axuda have given you good advice above.
I like Axuda’s ‘forget it’ day – ice-cream helps too 🙂
Louise Hay has a book called ‘Heal your life’ – and has some good pointers on her website – here is the link:
Hope it helps !
GOD Bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Chaya,
You stated you are sensitive – Dr. Elaine Aron has a book called “The Highly Sensitive Person”, and there is a checklist / self-test on her website. Here is the link: http://hsperson.com/
Hope it helps !
GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi redcar,
I agree with Axuda who has given you good advice above – usually when one partner cheats, it is THE END of the relationship !
I would NOT tell your ex about it – you have broken up already, and you will end up hurting him more if he truly loved you – if he finds out on his own, then that is fate !!
It seems you still love him and deep inside may want to get back with him – if so, you need to clear that in your conscious self first.
Hope you find peace !
GOD bless !!
July 11, 2015 at 7:28 pm in reply to: Moving on from a past relationship and finding yourself? #79659BenzRabbitParticipantHi Jon & Mumm,
Breakups are hard at any age and it hurts to lose people we love !
Some people move on fast and some of us have to heal the hurt before someone new comes into our life !!
Here is a link to some steps that will help:
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/family-divorce/coping-with-a-breakup-or-divorce.htmI pray your Angels guide you through this hurting time and you find true love and happiness !
GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Katrina,
I feel your pain – breakups are hard but even harder when you are not the one making that decision !
Sometimes, life puts us in tough situations where we feel all alone and lost but it is not the end of the road – it is your soul wanting a different/new path towards someone better !!
Do Not isolate yourself otherwise you will end up in depression – which is worse !!!
You are doing the right things – specially going to the gym/exercising – that is the best thing to do to keep the mind strong.
You will get through this – I pray your angels guide you forward.
GOD bless !!!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Alexandra,
We are scarred in childhood and then spend our adult lives trying to ‘sort’ things out !
Society further adds to this burden and then the mind becomes overwhelmed !!
The only solution to this is to find YOUR “SELF”. To do that you have to find your inner strength – it is not easy but can be done if you have the will.
Don’t give up – you are still young and have your life ahead of you – fix this issue now !
Here are links to 2 articles that will help:
http://www.wikihow.com/Cope-With-Body-Dysmorphic-Disorder
http://www.wikihow.com/Develop-Self%E2%80%90EsteemAlso, please watch this one video/song – it relates to your situation:
GOD Bless !!!
BenzRabbitParticipantDear Nicole,
You are way ahead of most people your age 🙂
Don’t be so hard on yourself !
You are just coming out of a relationship and your soul is asking you to take some time to figure out your next steps in life. At the same time, your mind is feeling out of place/left out/alone since you are not in a relationship !!
Take it one day at a time – the answers will come to you soon.
GOD bless !!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Penguin,
You are a kind soul that is ‘absorbing’ the energy around you.
Anita has given you good advice – I will only say:
Please do not carry the burden of other people – it will overwhelm you and cause problems in your own life !GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantChildren see how their parents are living their life and copy that !
The example you set for your children by your actions and guidance is more important than genes !!
GOD bless !!!
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