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  • in reply to: Hi there, I need some help! #78106
    BenzRabbit
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    Hi Victoria,

    Most people in your shoes would have fallen apart and turned to alcohol/drugs – you are a strong person and a good soul !

    Sometimes in life, when it rains….it pours !!

    You need to start from a place of security first…being very conservative with your finances and future decisions.

    Here is the link to an article that will help:
    http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/12/making-a-financial-turnaround/

    GOD bless and good luck !

    in reply to: lost faith #78104
    BenzRabbit
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    As someone who is older and had struggled with these questions, let me say this:

    There IS a higher power !

    How it works exactly is beyond human understanding !!

    Glet, the answer to your question is ‘Karma’. That is why bad things happen and ‘God’ seemingly does not stop them !!!

    Karma does not fit in with Christianity, Islam or Judaism but it is the central tenet of Hinduism and Buddhism. In fact, just like you, Lord ‘Buddha’ (who used to be a Prince) got confused by bad things happening to people – read his story.

    You need to be a good person and do good deeds – that is all you can do.

    Please don’t overthink this – over centuries, many intelligent people have gone insane looking for an answer.

    GOD Bless !

    in reply to: I feel deeply ashamed of myself #77797
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    Charlotte,

    You have been given good advice by folks above.

    Here is the link to some added steps from this website itself:

    http://tinybuddha.com/blog/7-steps-to-move-through-shame-fear-and-regret/

    GOD Bless !

    in reply to: Trying to come out of my struggles – need kind words #77796
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    Hi Heal,

    You are dealing with fear – Do not give it any more power !

    The past is done and the chance of you running into the same people again is very small. It is time to move forward !!

    There is a higher power that will guide and protect you – have Faith in it and in Yourself !!!

    Here are links to 2 short articles that will help you:

    http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/Pages/overcoming-fears.aspx

    http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-with-Workplace-Bullying-and-Harassment

    GOD Bless !

    BenzRabbit
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    Hi Lavender27,

    I wish parents would realize the damage they do to their own children !

    You have to find a way out of there. Until then, I would suggest ‘silence’ – it is a Buddhist practice and works wonders. No matter what is said, remain silent and remove yourself from the situation.

    Here are 2 links that should help you:
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/culturally-speaking/201303/overcoming-the-pain-childhood-abuse-and-neglect
    http://www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic-violence-survivors-handbook.asp?section=000100010008000100360004

    You have your entire life ahead of you and it WILL get better !!!

    I pray your angels guide you forward.

    GOD Bless !

    ps: listen to this song by Jewel called ‘Hands’ – it will lift your spirit:

    in reply to: I Need Help #77793
    BenzRabbit
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    Hi Keon,

    Sometimes life puts us through tough situations demanding change from ourselves !

    Outside forces including family add to the pressure but it is your soul demanding you find your ‘life path’ !!

    Basically, you are ‘lost’ and seeking ‘love’ – as simple as that !!!

    Find your purpose and love will follow.

    Here is the link to simple steps you can take today:
    http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Your-Purpose-in-Life

    GOD bless !

    in reply to: Disappointed in people #77513
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    Miranam,

    Here is the short and blunt answer that will save you years of self doubt and melancholy: ‘Most people are jerks’ – key word: “most”

    You are a kind spirit in a selfish world !

    You did nothing wrong – DO NOT doubt your good actions !!

    This may help: http://www.belongwithwildflowers.com/being-kind-in-a-cruel-world/

    GOD Bless !!!

    in reply to: How to Contact an Old Friend Who is Grieving #77512
    BenzRabbit
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    I would send her condolences now.

    Tell her you just found out via fb and also tell her that you had been thinking of her and are there for her. I have a feeling she will appreciate it.

    in reply to: I want to share my despair with someone #77511
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    George,

    Misanthropic feelings come from being ‘unloved’ and not understood !

    To be blunt, there is little you can do to change your father/parents and others !!

    Life is tough but it is never hopeless. Take small steps forward and the light will begin to come through.

    Please read this short article to get started – here is the link:
    http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Worth

    GOD bless !

    in reply to: New Mom, Feeling Suicidal #77509
    BenzRabbit
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    Hi xevv,

    Please DO NOT harm yourself – suicide seems like a solution when the mind is overwhelmed but it leaves behing a trail of severe destruction for others – specially kids !

    Please read this short article – here is the link:
    http://www.wikihow.com/Cope-With-Emotional-Pain

    Also, there seem to be complex issues from your childhood/past that need to be resolved – this should help you get started:
    http://www.yellowbrickprogram.com/index.html

    ps: one of the easiest things you can do that will help you feel better is to take a walk – a simple 10 minute walk outside around the block is good enough. It does wonders for the mind when you are feeling overwhelmed ! If you can do 20 minutes that is great – if not, just do 10 minutes a day !!

    I pray your angels guide you forward.

    GOD bless !!

    in reply to: I Can't Live with Myself Any More #77507
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    name,

    Anita and others have given u good advice above.

    Please read these small steps by Louise Hay who has helped a lot of people in your situation – here is the link:
    http://www.healyourlife.com/12-ways-you-can-love-yourself-now

    Life is tough but you have to get thru it one day at a time – no one else can do it for u – begin today !

    GOD Bless !!

    in reply to: unsatisfied & helpless #75517
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    Hi Bridgette,

    You are a ‘wise’ soul and mature for your age !

    Unfortunately, socializing nowadays at any age revolves around drinking ! Not drinking is a good thing – you have realized that at an early age and that is good !!

    Anytime you have a different path than the ‘crowd’ you will be alone at times in life….but that is ok.

    Having said that, just make sure you don’t get too isolated and fall into depression….that is something you must be careful of. Make sure you have at least a few people that you communicate with on a regular basis, and try to find even one or two friends that do not drink and you can hang out with.

    God bless and good luck !

    in reply to: I need help. #75516
    BenzRabbit
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    …forgot to include this one on anxiety: http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Anxiety

    in reply to: I need help. #75515
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    Hi Chocaway,

    Not having a Dad when growing up is difficult….and high school can add to that !

    Don’t even try to change your family…it is very difficult and will only get you frustrated !!

    You are young and just starting life – what matters now is that you have faith in yourself and in your dreams. Be the unique individual you were created to be…..and ignore the haters !

    Please read this simple article – here is the link: http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Worth

    Here is one on depression: http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Depression

    I pray your angels guide you forward and wish you a happy, joyful life ahead !

    GOD Bless !!

    in reply to: Don't know what to do #75513
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    Hi Caleb,

    Anxiety comes when we are unsure about ourselves or uncertain about the future – or both !

    You are young and have a full life ahead of you – the actions you take now will determine your entire future !!

    Michelle, Martina and others have given you some good advice above. I will only add that our parents mean well and they never wish for bad things to come upon us.

    I pray your angels guide your path forward.

    GOD Bless !

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