Hi John,
I feel for you, I really do. You’re actually about the same amount of time post break up as I am and I don’t feel any better either. I’m now friends with my ex which I wouldn’t recommend. We were together for a year and I thought he was it but we ended up wanting different things. I wanted to settle down and get married and he didn’t. I’m friends with him now hoping that maybe he’ll see we’re meant to be but it’s the worst because every time I see him I have to pretend I’m over him. I don’t even think at this point in time I can cut ties with him because I want to spend time with him. It’s actually ridiculous. You’re definitely on the right path and I’m sure eventually you’ll be at peace with the break up and you’ll meet someone else.