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August 2, 2016 at 8:41 am #111310
sandstormParticipanttalk to your guy about it. if he really loved you, u will have a chance …
July 3, 2016 at 12:19 am #108759sandstormParticipantgo to doctor get some medication . it worked for me
June 22, 2016 at 5:29 pm #107971sandstormParticipantaccept it its over. accept all ur feeling don’t runaway . than it would be easy to move on
May 31, 2016 at 12:16 am #106048sandstormParticipantno i don’t want to proceed right now .i know for sure i won’t be able to handle it . i am not ready at all. i have save myself .i am not jumping into relationship and i am not desperate. Its just that i got hurt so i feel happy when somebody approach me .when i am not even trying. its been journey for me finding someone, its natural guys don’t you think. on my journey i actually gave up finding someone . i was in peace. but than how would you feel someone approaches you . won’t you’ give an genuine thought about it . now i cannot beat nature if guys were design to be quick and girls to be slow . but yes do understand things it not right make move fast.hey brav what you are saying is right but i already got this advice from many people so i respect it . hey anita please don’t call me desperate . my roommates use to make fun of me calling me desperate.it hurts .it hurts . please don’t call me that .may be every person is different .its not like i choose to be desperate . all my life my parents told me not date concentrate on studies career. than they tell me all of sudden go and find someone by yourself . so its like i have least amount of experience in this . but by trying something i was not giving up on myself . i got hurt . i learned a lot .than i stopped . i don’t see anything wrong in that . i always tried my level best to make things right from whatever info and knowledge i had at given time . well i am using this forum to get 3rd person perspective . and i genuinely respect all of you for your time and consideration .
May 29, 2016 at 10:36 pm #105955sandstormParticipanti am getting attached to her . she is like always in my mind .i don’t know what to do . i don’t really text her . than she will know how much attached to her right now .honestly i am falling for her. and I am resisting my level best not fall for her.
because i will feel so much pain if m not person she is looking . ohhh shit i probably super like her . how to stop this cycle of liking her . why why why . i am like daydreaming always that m with her .i don’t know whats right thing to do now . I really honestly speaking don’t want to fall in love . because everytime i do, shit happens and i get hurt so badd. than i rather prefer to be single all my life than hurting myself again and again and again . last when my ex broke up with me i still remember ,forget my brain but my body was not accepting the truth .for one week i was shivering .my body was shivering .for 3 days i forgot to eat food . i lost like 12 kg within 3 days . It was most awful days. i was telling my self she is gone .but my body was not accepting it. i cried for days,months . i was just feeling so miserable . guess what i still want her to be happy . because i still love her . but she never saw that in me . she became practical in her life . she wants things which i don’t have. that pain is still there in me . and i don’t want to go through all that pain
. its funny there are so many things in life we actually don’t have control on it . one of them is emotions . the new girl knows about my ex . she knows that i went to depression . she always asks me to move on . she tells me that she will never comeback . reality hurts.
now i feel i don’t want to fall in love like i before . i want to be very safe . i have to protect my self from getting hurt. because whats the point if i am keep on hurting myself at cost of finding someone in my life. i wish we were on same page in our life of loving each other the (new girl). rather than confusing ourself with BS of making fool of ourself . sometimes i feel i just go and tell her look I love you . i promise i will take care of you and if you don’t love me its fine but i cannot be your friend anymore .aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . love the most dangerous addiction . i hope its worth itMay 25, 2016 at 12:52 pm #105620sandstormParticipantgood going bro
May 23, 2016 at 11:23 pm #105465sandstormParticipanthey brav i feel your pain . it will fade away with time m sure .stay strong bro. shit happens .forgive her and forget her be better human being .thats the only right thing you should do. yes its gonna be difficult but not impossible.
May 21, 2016 at 12:57 pm #105271sandstormParticipanthey chase i am with your friends “If you really care about each other, you will find a way to be together.”
its not like one of you cheated, or not compatible , was in unhealthy relationship . so there is no strong reason to end it .
only problem you are facing is long distance m i right . people put so much effort to make it work . you can visit him alternate weekend . same he can . but question is are you willing to put so much effort to make it work. is he willing to put effort to make it work .
Honestly speaking you guys are giving up not for strong reason . r u willing to trust him .
well i was you i would try my best to make it work . i know my friends and relative who were in 5-6 years of long distance relationship .
so i would suggest to communicate with you special one and think about it . ….
giving up is an easy option ,making it work is difficult one .
you will never have perfect cookie cut out condition . i believe you should adapt the situation .i wrote this way because you willing to listen ok (Hard truths are appreciated – do not hesitate to be a straight shooter with any advice you have! I will not be offended.)
May 18, 2016 at 3:27 am #104876sandstormParticipanthey anne i got perfect song for your post
May 17, 2016 at 12:06 am #104754sandstormParticipanthey alex thats good that you are not emotionally dependent on anyone its good for long run . becoming emotional strong is very important .
i also talk to my parent only when necessary . i know where u coming from . its ok like you many other are also in same situation . i have adapted myself to some how ignore if it BS . i talk less so they don’t get chance to get under my skin . i prefer text over the phone. well with experience you will somehow develop thick skin .May 16, 2016 at 8:22 am #104658sandstormParticipanthey anne ,
guys forget things way more faster than girls do . yea how does it matter whether he should know the new you . m sure if he really loved you he will understand you no matter what . its good you doing good now or better now .
I am with poetic morsels with this one “he has to know the new you, he will.let universe do the job.
so enjoy new you anne and keep growing .May 14, 2016 at 11:04 pm #104553sandstormParticipant
listen to thisMay 14, 2016 at 10:39 pm #104552sandstormParticipanti am really sorry to hear that . i think you should take break if it is draining your energy . or try find someone who is equally serious like you .i know its difficult but never loose hope. i have been to similar situation . i know it hurts . but than i just do what i like and concenterate how to be happy without keeping my happiness depending on someone .you have to keep patience . i am doing the same now . guess what out no where people starting liking me the way i am . i feel u should concentrate on few or may be one at time . to make it work . i do that trust me it works i concentrate only one person i like it becomes so much easy hassle free . and other person also respect me since they understand the fact that . i am actually giving them my attention ,care so they feel special . so i wish best of luck and lot of patience and . be strong . dreaming715
May 14, 2016 at 10:57 am #104529sandstormParticipanti knew you will answer anita THANKYOU THANKYOUUUUUUUUUUUUUU. help me more . previous girls i dated all were of my age or older than me they were very clear what they want in life. were serious what they were looking for . so it was super comfortable to date them . here she is nice but i have to put lot work to understand her . she get scared since she is young less experience . she super nice . i get scared frankly i am not good for her . she can definitely do better. but i think since i understand her more . i always put her in comfort zone she likes me more. i have been always subtle to her by letting her know what i am looking . but my past scars makes me not only cautious but also insecure . which natural for me . i accept it . here is the situation when i am not looking for anyone i am getting interest by this girl . right now i am super duper confused .
May 6, 2016 at 10:25 pm #103841sandstormParticipanti absolutely agree with anita. i did took drastic approach got result as well.but i wasn’t happy emotionally affected my mind ,friendship and family relationship.trust me healthy diet sometimes plays huge part in life. since you have initiated step thats good just be consistent without going super drastic.
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