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May 6, 2020 at 6:43 am #353522
You are a light that will always shine in any friendship, there are so many fascinating connections awaiting you in this world, your friendship is clearly valuable, get extremely busy with a hobby, volunteering and take some time out, see how things unfold, you need more distributed love in your life so that you are secure, nourished and buffered from life’s ups and downs, join groups that can eventually be your tribe like a community, then the context of this will fall into place automatically.May 1, 2020 at 8:54 am #352488
It’s ok to be where you are, just like a modified photo, there may be an image in the society of the ‘stepford person’ the one who is the ideal just out of grasp, emotionally perfect, but we aren’t built for that.
Feeling a lot may indicate a gifted sensitivity that has had to be blocked off into numbness as a defence mechanism, which is self-preservation, this is your gift, my friend.
Along with AA you may access other groups, this whole journey you have outlined, its a goldmine you’ve accumulated with very powerful potential to help others on a path like you
Be numb, be you, be a goth or melancholic, like Dante, you’re diving in it to bring up pearls for others, you know a lot now because of the challenging path, you will make a lovely refuge for those struggling, you have profound expertise now, how will you use it, we are all broken somehow, our brains are made that way, you can be the gold that holds another broken plate together. Realise who you are and what you will achieve.April 29, 2020 at 4:04 am #352066
What energises and recharges you? sometimes we need to keep ourselves fed and very charged, you’re amazing, doing everything but interdependence means you need to be a part of a system that can use your strengths and keep you nourished at the same time, in the future look into quieter roles, a workplace that feeds you whilst you give. There is nothing wrong with you, we all function optimally in different environments, so find your tribe for thriving then minimise the huge challenges that drain.
The world is very lucky to have a lovely human being like you, you are very valuable and precious and have very real needs to give your best, your needs matter and if you slowly move into different and better spaces, it will mean that you will be able to give more and the best of yourself in the world. Don’t push yourself without self-compassion.April 22, 2020 at 10:30 am #351054
We will never be perfect in human birth, there is something that we will want, when it becomes overwhelming, think of the percentage of the population that is the same height or less, then think of these in context, some nations have a lower average height, there are billions, they are crazily happy, never thinking that any change in their physique will bring any joy, they are successful
Make your height your trademark, along with you, so now how will this trademark serve the world with the wonderful gift of being a part of a 5.5 tribe, because you are clearly not along, be free from making inappropriate comparisons, know what value you personally have, everyone has some very special gifts
Set up a group for people suffering mentally due to this, you won’t be along and together you all can achieve something great.
Again cultural specific standards mean that not all value muscular images in high esteem, mingle with people like yourself, for example in the East the standard height may be lower, for men and women so you would be average and normal.
Get new mentors to look up to, Danny Devito, many many others.