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August 15, 2014 at 12:29 pm #63457
Hang in there please, the feelings and emotions you are going through won’t last forever. Maybe have a chat with your doctor. Just give yourself a chance.
DonnieOctober 17, 2013 at 11:50 am #43919
I know the pain you talk about with your heart, ive had the same pain and still have it now but you learn to deal with it. It takes a long time to get over it and i dont think you do ever get over the loss you just learn to accomadate it. The feelings of rejection and failure are consuming but your love was pure and you should be proud of yourself for being able to give that. I wish you well in your journey and you will be alright.October 16, 2013 at 7:44 am #43869
First things first slow down a bit and breathe a little. You are only young so don’t panic about life.I have been in the armed forces so know the crack. The army has a basic swimming test which you must pass and after that there is very little swimming involved unless you get involved in swimming for the Army. The other forces I’m not sure off, so if your serious about a life in the forces use these two years to overcome your fear and practice your swimming, get strong and apply again.
It’s difficult is a breakup I’m going through one myself and I wouldn’t wish it on anybody what I’ve been through. It happens and all you’ve got to think is that if you’ve been the best you can be to this girl that’s all you can do. You never know what’s round the corner . I joined up at 18 had a girlfriend, broke up and after 18 years we are back in touch how spooky is that.
What I’m saying is be good to yourself , and don’t give up on your dream job and stay out of trouble.It will happen just believe and if it doesn’t put it down to experiance.
Let me know how things goAugust 22, 2013 at 2:16 pm #41011
Hi buddhist wife, with regards to your comment about me and my wife living togeather, she moved out about four days later after i had caught her with that man. As far as im aware she is now living with this man. I came home from work and she was gone with all her stuff. She now wants me to pay for the divorce even though i dont want it and she wants the house to be sold, so i loose everything for somthing she has done. In my eyes she is still an amazing person who i would still give my life for without question, but she is so aggresive towards me it rips me apart. At this moment in time i feel quite peacefull even though i miss her im slowly dealing with it. Lets see what the future brings.
Thankyou buddhist wife and sapnap3 for your kind and reasuring words they mean a lot to me and give me strength