Jack,

I’m just reading through you post and replies.  I’m also glad that you’re feeling better about you anxiousness.  There are a lot of factors involved with new relationships such as age, experience, family structure and more.  Not to pull you back from your current bliss, I am curious about the above factors that I mentioned.  Also, do not let sex sway your opinion for the future.  Life and companionship will involve more than sex.  I do hope that this will work out for the 2 of you, but keep an opened mind for your well being.  I’m also curious if she’s been seeking “advice” from anyone or is it just you?  Either way, good luck!!!

Hello Kibou,

In reading your post, if you don’t mind, I’d like to know how old you are?  In your first post you stated a number of situations that you repeat several times and this is why I’m wondering your age.  In a nut shell, you seem wise enough to recognize you situation, however with the repetitiveness, I’m wondering why you feel the way you do.  People will always come and go in life as I’d assume you’ve “gone” from others in your life.  Try to see life as a tree.  It has many leaves and as time moves on, some of the leaves fall from the tree, however, it is still a thriving tree.