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February 14, 2014 at 7:30 am #50997AnnParticipant
It is great to know to took the step in seeking help for yourself. That is very wise and brave thing to do. I totally get where you are coming from. Also keep in mind that you can’t hold on to hoping he will do what you want him to do. If he truly loves you and the baby, he will be willing to do it on his own. Your feelings are validated. Use that energy towards bettering your situation emotionally, mentally and physically. I am trying to do the same here. You will hit some road blocks but don’t let that get you down. The harder you work on being better, the rewards are greater. Nobody can take away that power you posses unless you give them the power. Stay strong.August 25, 2013 at 8:34 am #41122AnnParticipant
Thank you Matt for responding so quickly. I really do appreciate your input and opening my mind a little. I take comfort in knowing that people like yourself who take time to write back to a total stranger. I am in a lot of pain. I can’t feel nothing but how can I move past this. How do I let go of such pain. How can he do this to me. How can he lie time and time. Is he truly sorry this time??? Either way I feel it is definitely going to be hard the decision I have to make. If I stay, I have to constantly watch my back. If I leave, my kids grow up without him. Don’t get me wrong, he is a good dad. I just wish I hadn’t gotten involved with him in the first place. I guess I do kind of regret it. I know it’s terrible for me to say this but I feel this way now. Part of me wants to go and a little part of me wants to stay and try one last time. I don’t really know what else I can do. I am not sure I am missing that drove him to make this choice. Lies are something I can’t tolerate. It depends all the mistake and the lies you tell. I can’t dismiss this type of lie and betrayal that easily. I don’t think I can ever. I thank you once more.