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  • September 19, 2015 at 7:14 am #83632
    Gill
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    Hi Love,

    Firstly, i’m sorry to hear you are having a difficult time, a break up is never easy. However, rather than concentrating on finding a new partner perhaps you could focus on what makes you happy. Is there any clubs you could join where you could meet new people, forge new friendships. You may find that by meeting new friends you’ll learn more about yourself and discover what type of person you enjoy spending time with. The old saying you find love when you are not looking for it is one that can be very true.

    You say you are terrified of putting yourself back out there, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. Small steps can lead to big things.

    Hope this help x

    September 18, 2015 at 6:50 am #83595
    Gill
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    Hi Sanguine,

    Having read your post the first thing that sprung to mind is rejection. I think the rejection you felt when Steph called things off all those years ago has contributed to your erratic behaviour. Honestly as a married woman I do not and cannot understand your behaviour. To me you have failed to get over the heart ache from losing Steph and while you firmly say you are not interested in an affair you are being driven by some compulsion. You are skating on very thin ice and in my opinion disrespecting your wife. Your trying to play your emotions down but I can practially hear you screaming out in frustration.
    If I was you I would put Steph back where she belongs and that is in the past. You need to focus on the present, your wife and kids. Your wife seems like a really kind person give her the respects she deserves. Move on, focus on your family and the happiness they bring you and let go of Steph.

    Letting go is never easy but it’s something that needs to be done to move forward.

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