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  • in reply to: Loving myself #199477
    Hey Its Jess
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    I know…its just about about finding the right balance between work and life. I have realized that my happiness is directly proportional to the amount of things that I get done in the day lol. If I waste time or slack off, I go to bed feeling like a sore loser xD and that depressing feeling stays with me for some days.

    in reply to: How Emotional Are You? #198947
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    People think I am extremely emotional, I think I am ok. Its an area of my personality that I am always working on

    in reply to: Loving myself #198753
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    Agreed! =)

    Hey Its Jess
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    Tbh, I don’t prefer working under someone either. An office-like environment with tons of rules and regulations creeps me out. Truth is, many people are like that so we aren’t diseased or something lol xD

    You just need to find what you like doing as a hobby, for a start, and transform it into a skill. It doesn’t have to be a die hard passion. Just something you like doing. Try different things like singing, coding, computer programming, painting, writing, yoga,  etc.

    There’s more to life than just getting a job, getting married and then dying.

    in reply to: Loving myself #198549
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    Hello guys! Thank you for all the replies greatly appreciate it ^_^
    yes, you’re right Anita. Unfortunately, we can’t undo things but I just can’t accept myself being useless anymore. Guess that’s a good thing. I’ll have to look at the positive side of things and take care of myself more often.

    • This reply was modified 6 years, 1 month ago by Hey Its Jess.
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    Hey Andrew!

    First lets get this clear, depression is not a “problem” its a sign so you don’t need to panic and think that something is “wrong” with you. Please don’t be so hard on yourself and learn to accept these “bad” thoughts along with the good ones because they are a part of you…its not something to be looked upon with hate.

    Secondly, you need to really zone out and observe your thoughts. Think about what you really want? what truly makes you happy? Who or what is stopping you from doing the things that you want to do? What would you do if that obstacle didn’t exist?

    Remember, that no one has to live a certain way because they are expected to. You can literally live your life any way you want. As cheesy as it sounds, the possibilities are endless.

    in reply to: Do I contact him? #189363
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    Hey Mary!

    This guy is clearly a jerk and seems to be busy somewhere else. If I were you I would give him a taste of his own medicine xD Don’t contact him again and he’ll eventually get the signal that you aren’t interested. No need to make any clarifications. Inmho, most of the guys online on dating are sites are looking for flings so its much better if you meet someone in real life 🙂

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