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  • #363770
    Ifty
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    Dear Anita,

    I haven’t talked to him for a while now. We have to talk. I want to tell him how I feel now and if he still feels the love he has, we will work on it .if not …then it will stop. You know something, even though he says he can’t be with me now. I know after 2/3 months he will come back ( if there is not anyone). He has a tendency like that. that doesn’t mean it will happen always.

    i am afraid once I move on with my life he will come again to mess it up.  I do not what will happen.

    #363764
    Ifty
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank you for responding. I feel like you are there for me. I understand what you said. I told you one thing that is new that happened to me. Spritualy I feel more connected, not about him only, with any person if I have done wrong, I repent for my behavior. Feeling satisfied with little what I have, I should be thankful. It didn’t occur to me.

     

    I am sorry for my ignorance. I want to make him feel better so that he realizes I can be a best version of myself. If it is not meant to be it will not happen, no matter how much I want to. But only thing is I want to give effort in a new way.

    Is that wrong for me to think about? Can’t I change for a better version of myself? People make mistakes and learn from them. This time I feel I have know a lot of things I didn’t know.

    Thank you in advance for your time.

    #314187
    Ifty
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    Hi Anita

    I love my partner but only problem is I feel stuck.  He doesn’t want me to fulfill my dreams. If I want to have a social life of my own he opposes that.  According to him,  he is exclusive to me n I should be that too.

    My friend showed me how to love unconditionally . The standard he showed for caring for someone,  doesn’t match with my partner.  I feel there is lacking. Moreover . I can’t be sacrificing as my partner wants.

    My family supports me n would be fine if I get a good husband.  I referred my family bcz that’s the only thing drives me to be successful.  But my partner doesn’t seem to understand that I am more of myself rather than being just his girl friend.

    Hope you will enlighten me.

    Thanks

     

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