Dear Anita                                                                                         I am right now focusing on my studies I have exam within 15 days…..and I started reading book on intrusive thoughts and I also talk to my sister about this…..I am feeling better than that…but the problem is I am starting afraid of being around girls(disclaimer: it’s not like I have something feelings for them) this is happen because of intrusive thoughts,right? and I am constantly feeling guilty and sort of you know shameful…is there is any way not to feel like this

Dear Anita.                                                        Do you think person who facing problem of intrusive thoughts can become normal person again as they were before intrusive thoughts?

 

I literally don’t know about my fear prior to these thoughts….I understand that these thoughts doesn’t have power to change reality….I understand all….but problem is I just can’t shift my focus from these thoughts… whatever I see…. whatever ever do….when I talk to somebody…..these thoughts come to my mind…I just wanted to not to focus on these thoughts…but I don’t how?

Dear Anita.                                                                      So what should I do so these thoughts doesn’t effect me or my behavior or change my behavior?

Thank you Anita mam….for your advice and I am feeling better after this…but after having these thoughts I become very conscious about my surroundings….and you mentioned many times in your answers that…you also faced ocd…does that thoughts were the same thoughts like I have?

Dear Anita.                                                                          I have been facing these problem since 15 days….I don’t have boyfriend yet, I have some crushes on boys or some male actors…but suddenly these thoughts came to mind…and I am frustrated by these thoughts….I also cry sometimes because I don’t want that thoughts in my mind, I am started feeling scar from these words like bi ,gay,les,etc….before these thoughts I love to watch romantic movies and Love to read romantic books of girls and boys…but after these thoughts when I saw romantic scene between girl and boy I feel wierd and strange…and wierd but I don’t want feel that..why I am having these feelings… sometimes I think that these are intrusive thoughts but after ques arise in my mind what if these is true….and sometimes I thought that like Kristen Stewart and miley Cyrus had boyfriends but now they are girls these bothers me…I don’t want be like these…I am not like this….plzz help me….and I want to know what is difference between ocd and hocd….my heart says that I am straight but my brain starts questioning….this bothers me…and I don’t feel myself right now….I never saw any girl in this way….but now I become over concious..I just want to get these thoughts away from me…and I want to be normal again..plzz give me reply as soon as possible..and why I feel strange when I see any couple after these thoughts? This is just my thoughts right?