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Dear Anita I am right now focusing on my studies I have exam within 15 days…..and I started reading book on intrusive thoughts and I also talk to my sister about this…..I am feeling better than that…but the problem is I am starting afraid of being around girls(disclaimer: it’s not like I have something feelings for them) this is happen because of intrusive thoughts,right? and I am constantly feeling guilty and sort of you know shameful…is there is any way not to feel like this
Do you think person who facing problem of intrusive thoughts can become normal person again as they were before intrusive thoughts?
Dear Anita. Do you think person who facing problem of intrusive thoughts can become normal person again as they were before intrusive thoughts?
I do excercise and yoga… sometimes but not on regular basis
I literally don’t know about my fear prior to these thoughts….I understand that these thoughts doesn’t have power to change reality….I understand all….but problem is I just can’t shift my focus from these thoughts… whatever I see…. whatever ever do….when I talk to somebody…..these thoughts come to my mind…I just wanted to not to focus on these thoughts…but I don’t how?
Dear Anita. So what should I do so these thoughts doesn’t effect me or my behavior or change my behavior? Can you tell why these thoughts effect me so much?
Dear Anita. So what should I do so these thoughts doesn’t effect me or my behavior or change my behavior?
No no…..I never feel that….but when I saw something like that the thought came to my mind that….how girl and boy fall for each other
Thank you Anita mam….for your advice and I am feeling better after this…but after having these thoughts I become very conscious about my surroundings….and you mentioned many times in your answers that…you also faced ocd…does that thoughts were the same thoughts like I have?
Thank you Anita mam….for your advice and I am feeling better after this…..but as I said earlier in question…that I love to watch romantic movies….but after having thoughts I suddenly feel strange and weird when i see a girl and boy together….I don’t know why…can you answer it that…why it is happening to me….and after having these thoughts I become very conscious about my surroundings….and you mentioned many times in your answers that…you also faced ocd…does that thoughts were the same thoughts like I have?
Dear Anita. I have been facing these problem since 15 days….I don’t have boyfriend yet, I have some crushes on boys or some male actors…but suddenly these thoughts came to mind…and I am frustrated by these thoughts….I also cry sometimes because I don’t want that thoughts in my mind, I am started feeling scar from these words like bi ,gay,les,etc….before these thoughts I love to watch romantic movies and Love to read romantic books of girls and boys…but after these thoughts when I saw romantic scene between girl and boy I feel wierd and strange…and wierd but I don’t want feel that..why I am having these feelings… sometimes I think that these are intrusive thoughts but after ques arise in my mind what if these is true….and sometimes I thought that like Kristen Stewart and miley Cyrus had boyfriends but now they are girls these bothers me…I don’t want be like these…I am not like this….plzz help me….and I want to know what is difference between ocd and hocd….my heart says that I am straight but my brain starts questioning….this bothers me…and I don’t feel myself right now….I never saw any girl in this way….but now I become over concious..I just want to get these thoughts away from me…and I want to be normal again..plzz give me reply as soon as possible..and why I feel strange when I see any couple after these thoughts? This is just my thoughts right?
Dear Anita. I have been facing these problem since the last 15 days…..these thoughts never came to my mind before…..and these thoughts are very disturbing and give stress and frustration…I don’t have boyfriend yet…but I had crushes on boys and male celebrities… suddenly these thoughts came into my mind…since then I just want ed to rid these thoughts away…I am started affrading from words like bi,gay,les etc…. because I am not like that….I never think of that… before these thoughts I love to watch romantic movies and read romantic books of girls and boys….but after having these thoughts I feel strange and weird….when I see romantic scenes between girl and boy….I know I am straight I always want a boyfriend…but still I am having these thoughts….and I also want know the difference between ocd and hocd….and I feel strange when I see romantic scene now this are just thoughts and this normal right?….bcs don’t want to feel that….I have my exams within month and I couldn’t focus on that…. sometimes I feel thise is intrusive thoughts but…but sometimes what if this is real….I don’t want to be like that….plz help me…and reply as soon as possible I write this again in case you haven’t read my prior post…both are same