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VinceParticipant
Thanks for your repsonse jasmine!
I was heading down a bad path before I met him. I just happened to fall face flat on that path during the relationship.
I don’t need him to be happy. I am happy. I shouldn’t rely on anyone to make me happy. I want him in my life because I love him and his company.
VinceParticipantMaybe the sooner you accept your flaws the better. I suffer from severe anxiety, and it was the downfall of my relationship. Do I regret that I allowed my mental illness to ruin it? No. Because that was my rock bottom. Since then I have worked on myself, and guess what? No anxiety!
Take this opportunity to better yourself for you, not for your friends. You have begun a journey of self discovery. Some would be very grateful for that. You are working on yourself, see that as a positive as you are striving to be the best version of you.
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VinceParticipantI find this a little odd too. However do you truly believe that he loves you? If so, then it shouldn’t bother you. Don’t sweat the small stuff. If you make a big deal out of it, you will just make him feel bad and it will push him away.
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VinceParticipantHey Bud
I too am going through a break up. It sucks. Nothing I can tell you will help speed up the process. I know, because nothing I have been told or read helps. Just know, like everything in life, it will pass. That’s something I am holding on to.
Also, re: the internet boyfriend. Yeah he is so a re-bound. An ‘internet relationship’ is not a relationship. I wouldn’t sweat it. Just remember while you are out with your mates having fun meeting people, she is in front of a computer screen talking to someone she hasn’t met yet. What does that sound like to you?
Hang in there bud.
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