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  • in reply to: Loss of Control #124362
    Jaydee
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    You’re not alone. That’s why there’s a discreet place that caters to this sexual activity. Each one of us have different desires and some can do from extreme to normal. As long as you are not causing harm to other people especially your loved ones, I don’t see anything differently wrong with you.

    in reply to: Crappy friend. Should I let him go? #123631
    Jaydee
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    Thank you all for the input. We had a catch up and talked about our friendship. I think I’m giving it another chance for now. I’ll take into consideration the “changing the dynamic of my friendship.” By the way, our friendship is not just drinking beer and basketball. We have certain bond together that is hard for me to just throw off. I will remember that “nurturing” too. Thanks for that.

    in reply to: A Friend has left #123079
    Jaydee
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    Some friends leave if they FEEL that they’re in a toxic relationship. If you really want her back, then by all means you will find a way to get her back to your life. You will instill that kind of friendship that once made you two best of friends.

    in reply to: My strong infatuation with my friend is affecting me deeply #122464
    Jaydee
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    You may be right. Once again, open communication may work wonder, who knows? I do respect his relationship with his partner and I do not have any intention of ruining it. I am happy for him having a healthy and loving relationship with his boyfriend. I hope I can have the right courage to pull this through. Talking is not my best quality.

    in reply to: Should I Accept Being Single Forever at age 23? #122463
    Jaydee
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    Age of 23 is way too young to say that you’ll be single forever simply because you can’t find the one for you or simply because you don’t have a partner or dating anyone at the moment. Some people are destined to be single and yet happy. Many are destined to have a partner/espouse and children – a happy family of their own. I don’t know you and everything all depends on what your character is, your likes, your personality, your past and present. What is your motivation? What is your dream? Your goal in life? If you don’t know yet, then, free to explore life. Meet new friends. Travel. Take courage to broaden your horizon. Take a plunge to volunteer. Maybe along the way, you’ll find the one for you, who knows? Having said that, my simple advice is…don’t stress too much about it.

    in reply to: My strong infatuation with my friend is affecting me deeply #122387
    Jaydee
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    Yes, I do fantasize about him if I don’t see him. If I do see him at work, that’s enough joy for me and I don’t fantasize about him. It doesn’t hurt nor help me. I don’t resent it.

    We are both closeted bisexuals and nobody at work knew our sexuality except his boyfriend who’s closeted bisexual too. I think it is making me sadder the fact that I feel like we’re drawing apart, our friendship. I honestly love him as a friend.

    in reply to: My strong infatuation with my friend is affecting me deeply #122377
    Jaydee
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    Thank you for your reply. I do not wish to have a relationship with him because it’s not possible. I know that. I know that he doesn’t like me. I know that he likes exclusive relationship. I’ve accepted that. I’ve resigned to the fact that I’m just his loyal friend. He used to confide with me, come to me whenever he’s having a problem or they’re having disagreements. Obviously, they’re both happy since I don’t see him coming to me, asking him to meet up as he wanted an advice. What I’ve just observed with myself is that whenever I do not see him, whenever I do not have any interaction with him of any sort, I tend to be so uptight.

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