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September 26, 2020 at 12:06 pm #367284
Agree! I do need to be more confident. I am just trying for him to trust his decisions more. Thank you!September 26, 2020 at 10:32 am #367276
Thank you so much for the insight. I will try and help him more. Last night we had a conversation about it, I told him that I felt it wasn’t fair that the friend just showed up not taking into accountability what had gone wrong earlier in April. I also told him we do not need toxic people in our lives. I told him if this person makes you feel anxious just by receiving a text, is not looking like a healthy person for you. I expressed that when I get a message from an old friend I usually feel happy, if I feel unhappy is obviously because that person isn’t aligned with me and my values. He agreed and thanked me for my insight. I also said that I would respect if he wants to give him a second chance, but that I think he cannot discuss me or our relationship with him at all. My bf then told me he doesn’t want to be friend’s with this person anymore and that he is thinking of not even replying to his text. He remains blocked, he actually texted my bf from his wife’s phone. We worked out and I really hope this person is no longer a part of our lives.
thank you!September 25, 2020 at 6:05 pm #367242
What a rollercoaster. I am sorry you had to go through all of this. I understand you still love this person, but you really need some space away from her. Time will be the only that will help you and give you perspective. I don’t know your situation, but if you can try to plan a trip or visiting someone for a few days. Usually surrounding ourselves with love, helps us realize how much we deserve and that we are worthy of love. I would try to stay away from her at least until your feelings clear up and you realize that this is definitely toxic and you cannot live like this. Be strong for you and your child.