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  • August 18, 2017 at 9:36 am #164584
    Justhere
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    You are so right, she is very irrelevant. Remember, it takes two to tango, you read the messages and although he never replied ‘I love you too’ he was definitely entertaining her feelings, deep feelings for him. Yeah, he would say whatever to let you think that they will stop communicating but all I can say is that you have to decide if you can live with knowing he may or may not have feelings for her. You have to either forgive him fully or none at all. Bringing it up after you have moved past it will only aggrevate him. And him saying you broke his trust is just him trying to take the blame off him. He broke your trust too! Dont sell yourself short for the familiar feeling of love and acceptance. You deserve the best, and you deserve loyalty and respect.

     

    June 10, 2017 at 3:03 am #152628
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    Hey guys….i finally got to speak to speak to him. Basically he didn’t react well, started shouting and saying every time he goes through something I make it about me….

    Im all for supporting. But I also believe that the coping methods you used when you were single can’t be the same you use in a relationship. You can’t shut me out…he was using curse words so loudly….im like…this doesn’t have to be an argument…if you’d be civil and calm and listen maybe then we could reach somewhere…guess I’ll always be the one who left when things got rough…but I’m not leaving the relationship entirely…just the living situation.  I can’t sleep well…its just not fair to me. Im unhappy…. He stays in the living room most of the night. Doesn’t check on me…doesnt even want me around…idk…its just frustrating honestly…

    June 9, 2017 at 6:38 pm #152616
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    Thanks Eliana…i joined this group cause honestly….i need people to talk to… I am gonna talk to him and let him know where I’m at right now…if he refuses to talk then I definitely have no choice

    June 9, 2017 at 5:19 pm #152610
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    Mark…your reply touched my heart…thank you

    June 9, 2017 at 5:19 pm #152608
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    You guys are so awesome…I really appreciate this. I think I’m gonna move out and we’ll see if the relationship work out.  It’s hard but it’s just as hard being there….and if I say hey…youre not talking to me…now ..he doesn’t answer at all…and I know I deserve better…it has taken a toll on my self esteem and I refuse to let it destroy me. So I have to do what’s best for me and yeah I’ll still be there for him if he wants me to be

    June 9, 2017 at 12:44 pm #152576
    Justhere
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    By him*

    June 9, 2017 at 12:43 pm #152574
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    We had a great relationship…we are really close and understand each other a lot…its just now I’m only seeing the bad things I guess…as I said he’s really spiritual…his journey could only be explained by honestly…i believe he’s a special being. I wanna support him but he won’t let me in…and I don’t know if I should just be absent also or not

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