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  • #98053
    Karlo
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    Hello ElleTinker700

    I am sorry to write this but I couldn’t agree with you on this one.
    I have had rough start because I haven’t got any contact with the language itself at all.
    And now we are learning so many new information that, at the end of a day I can’t remember all of it.
    The next day when I woke up and start doing German I recall some of the information and learn the other things to fill the gaps.
    If I would believe that if something is going wrong, and it is not meant for me to know, I would be just passive about my life in general.
    I have finished two engineering high schools and I have never said I love/like them.
    I simply do NOT like them and I would hate doing jobs that include engineering.
    But I like the challenges and I like to be active.
    German language will open so many gates for me career wise and that is something I value so much because I am going to be closer towards my personal goals.
    I will learn the German and pass the exams one by one and be so happy and proud when I finish the course!

    Anyways, thank you for the opinion. 🙂

    With warmth,
    Karlo

    #97972
    Karlo
    Participant

    Ok, will do Sir.
    Thank you so much!

    Karlo

    #97935
    Karlo
    Participant

    Thank you for the advices so much!

    To answer your questions Matty.
    1) My native language is Croatian.
    2) I Wake up at 7 am, studying from 8 am till 11 or 11:30 am (And there are some recalls of things which I have learned the day before). Also, I write the same things over and over and then memorize, after that I write down what I have memorized and compare with what I’ve learned before (if it is right, I will go through everything once more, if it is not I will do the same thing over and over till I get it)
    3) Classes are lasting around 5h and 30min (we need to fill up quota of 620 hours in 4 months) (right now, we are ending week 2)
    (1 school hour lasts 45 minutes, we have 7 school hours a day)
    We don’t know yet what exams will look like.

    And I have realised that the feeling of knowing something new after giving such effort feels so good and then I am proud of myself!

    -One more note:
    At the beginning of our class, we are learning about 10 new words.
    And around 5-10 more throughout the day, then there are grammar rules and what is the most toughest (and the most frightening because I am sweating like stupid and thinking what to say) is playing a game in which we are impersonating people in real life situations.
    For example: We have learned words like Seller and glasses.
    Now the teacher is making the example of what we should say as a seller and a buyer.
    There are like 6 sentences of what I need to remember.
    I am blank. (Completely lost and unconcentrated)

    I am sorry if I can’t answer right away because I am learning German.

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 2 months ago by Karlo.
    #95941
    Karlo
    Participant

    Thank You guys for the good and positive responses!

    With warmth,
    Karlo

    #95588
    Karlo
    Participant

    Thank you for your fast response!
    Well, right now I don’t have enough money and time for training sessions.
    We (my dad and me) made a decision of giving her away to some family where she is going to have a much happier life.

    #82483
    Karlo
    Participant

    Hi Lee,

    The first time he started to doubt in you, the relationship was destined to fall apart.
    All I can say right now is that you should evaluate your current situation, cons and pros of this relationship.
    If you thought even for a second that this relationship can harm you in any way (feeling depressed or anxious all the time), you should brake up with him immediately.
    If you continue like this (asuming you feel anxious and depressed), you could develop some disorders (like OCD) which you don’t want in your life, trust me (if you already don’t have one).

    Be smart, stay strong and follow your dreams.
    Karlo

    #82481
    Karlo
    Participant

    I’m so glad my answer helped.
    Because people like you can make a big difference in the world and I think everyone should look up to you.
    Such a nice person you are!
    And thank you for trying to help me.
    Right now, I have one friend that I can speak to.
    Sadly, my family is bad.
    As a matter of fact, right now I’m dealing with my disorders pretty well (I haven’t used medication at all).
    In the next six months I’ll be free.

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 9 months ago by Karlo.
    #82417
    Karlo
    Participant

    Hy Daniella,

    First of all to answer your question. You aren’t doing anything wrong.
    You did your best by leaving him alone while he was depressed and while everything went down for him because he wanted to.
    He needs to find himself why everything of that happened and learn a lesson.
    What you did is gave him one of the greatest lessons in life (aka tough love) because right now he might feel desperate and depressed but eventually he will either kill himself (which is less likely) or stand up and start learning about himself which is the only way of learning about life in general.
    I was jealous and depressed all the time during my past relationship which ended bad (I’ve developed depression, anxiety and OCD) because of ME and only Me (maybe she was also doing something wrong but who am I to judge, right?)
    Now I’m trying to do my best to become mentally, physically and emotionally strong enough and mature enough to step in a serious relationship where I’ll do my best to share love and be loved!
    (Sorry if I spelled something wrong or grammar isn’t right because English isn’t my first language)
    Hope you find this answer useful and all I can say right now is:
    Chase you dreams and help your family while you still can!

    Best wishes,
    Karlo

    #80116
    Karlo
    Participant

    Thank you so much for your answers!
    Will do, I’ll find a job and start drawing.

    Karlo

    #79643
    Karlo
    Participant

    So, it is going to be a long journey from now on. 🙂
    Thank you guys for all your advices!

    With warmth,
    Karlo

    #79620
    Karlo
    Participant

    You are welcome 🙂
    Keep going forward.
    Live the life you deserve and never look back.

    With warmth,
    Karlo

    #79617
    Karlo
    Participant

    Yeah, he is stubborn.
    I strongly recommend to stop any contact with him as soon as possible.
    I’m not trying to scare you or anything, I have been in similar relationship that ended almost 2 years ago.
    During that relationship and after breaking up I have developed depression,anxiety and ocd, wanted to hurt and kill myself…
    But thanks to that, I’m much stronger now. My choice was to live and seek help.
    Still struggling with anxiety and ocd though (I don’t use medications).
    I have chosen my own path and way to live and soon I’ll get rid of these conditions without any use of medications 🙂
    He is going to be fine, don’t worry.

    #79615
    Karlo
    Participant

    Hi Kath,
    Thank you for the advice, I should try that!

    #79614
    Karlo
    Participant

    For a moment, I thought you were my ex girlfriend and my heartbeat started to rise with every single sentence I have read, but your story went in different direction so, what a freaking relief, you are not my ex! 😛
    Well, I think he is still immature and spoiled (not ready for serious relationship), I was like him 4 years ago and with time he’ll realize what he was doing was wrong.
    Best advice I can give you in this moment is to cut any connections with him and move on.

    With kindness,
    Karlo

    #79606
    Karlo
    Participant

    I have actually enjoyed reading this post, well done Kath!

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