Thanks for the advice and here is the update. After the last message on Tuesday we haven’t text back each other. And after few days of calm down I realize I might not really that attached to him. And what spice up this situation is that the guy I dated back in last year, we dated for half year and I broke up with him on March. Recently on Tuesday, he asked me for coffee, we haven’t met each other since March. We caught up like nothing has changed. But after that, he sends me a message stating he is currently seeing someone else but waiting for my cocktail tasting invitation (I am currently attending a class to learn to make cocktails). I was like ” Of course, let me know when you are free.” ) He then replied ” Sry not on Sept, but maybe late Oct.”) I am not sure what did he expect, and why the wait till Oct? I mean I broke up with him twice since we are together, but I am not against the idea of getting back together cause I think I am more mature now and wanted to take thing slowly, like for real.
Yes, maybe I am a bit rushing and put on a pressured to him. But the fact that it was him asking me to be his girlfriend two weeks after we met. I thought he wanted something serious that’s why I am reconfirming with him asking ” what are we now”. I didn’t expect that this will push him away. He said he needs time to figure things out and still wanted to be my frd. I am not sure what to do as me and friend we were never a friend.
Guess it’s another word that he is not looking something serious?
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