Hi,

I am 24, I meet a guy at the same age as me  from a dating app. After chatting for awhile, he asked me out for a drink. It was a nice date, he is funny and wise.  We  have common interest (hiking, photography etc). The date went well. (However still he mentioned besides his current job, he also have a start up so he is always bust at work , his phone rings alot during the date but he then choose to turn it off , he said ” No I am not replying to the msg”, I gonna enjoy the time with __(my name) 🙂 )

The second date he brought me to a oyster restaurant. He brought a nice wine with him and shared more about himself, his family, his brother, his past relationship and what brings him to dating app.) The date also went well. After the dinner we went for a walk.

When I got home,  I received a text from him “Let’s take some time to know each other better , no rush right:)? ”

He then asked me out few days later

The third date we spent a day together, we went to an island to hike and then to the beach. During the whole day he was being caring , always pay attention to me, to check if i was tired , thirsty or hot.  He said he really enjoy spending time with me.

I was too tired and felt asleep on his shoulder on the ferry. And then while we are walking to metro he hugged me few times.

Thats the only physical touch we had.

But then later when i got home i received a text from him, again saying “And sorry but i want us to take time, you need to know what you are getting into.”

I am totally confused. (I mean I just hang out with him 3 times and I didnt really felt for him)

so i wrote” What am I gonna getting into?”

he said ‘exactly you need to discover 😉

he kept texting me though

okay, will anyone tell me what does that “taking time” mean, and what he is thinking?

A gentle push off or what?

I am confused