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    I will very carefully add that I believe a woman’s beauty is held in her confidence. Now, don’t take that to an extreme. Just be you. You’re the only one who can be you. No one else can be you. It doesn’t work that way. When you are you, unashamedly, unquestionably and most important honestly you will find that you are enough and you are terrific just as you are. Right there, in that spot is the most perfect version of you possible.

    When a dude looks at (a woman) and starts making Change Requests he is showing his own insecurity and his own fears. He needs external acceptance from others who will see you or to whom he will talk about you. This isn’t someone you need to be with as this is an unending roller-coaster ride of “change is needed to be accepted by people who constantly change their minds” and that is no way for someone to be asked to live. This person is a boy, not a man, and you are not obligated to feel any such shame from his childish actions. Release that back into the lake, there are better fish out there.

    As you are out and about being the You you have always been intended to be your confidence will blossom and in such a state you will attract a whole stable of men who want to be with you simply to be near someone who knows who they are, is capable of teaching them how to treat you and able to stand tall as you are without the nagging fear of not being the real you. You are the real you. You really are.

    Now go get on with your bad self because you’re awesome!

    #161922
    LifeInsideJack
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    I’m not interested in the message anymore. But, I’m very interested in knowing why this is so important to you. Don’t tell me what you are saying, but tell me what is going on in you that makes this important for you to tell others. What is the urgency within you? Of this, I am very curious.

    #161916
    LifeInsideJack
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    This has been enjoyable to read. I love the Spiritual Awakening part most. For as many people experience this there just as many ways. I knew one woman who simply stopped wearing make-up and she was liberated. For us, we went from 1,000 square feet of living space to 168. Everyone has their own thing that brings them to a place where communing with the Amazing is possible.

    Cleanliness is a great way to unclutter not just your surroundings, but our minds also. All those tasks “we should be doing” are done and out of the way. Now the practice of stillness, quietness and un-busy can be enjoyed without the nagging of our “we must be productive” thoughts.

    This is so fun!

    #161106
    LifeInsideJack
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    My $0.02

    As someone who has been a husband let me encourage you to not wait for one of us. We’re difficult, ┬ástrange at times and rarely match your perceived plan of how we act, smell and relate to your mother. You be you. You will like that better and it will attract one of us faster. Also, minimize the make up.

    Next I will say to you that we found our “home” in an RV that allows us to move about. This winter we will be in SoCal, next summer it will be Alaska. We have owned homes. We have lived near/far from family, we have worked stressful jobs, we have spent days on end wearing flip flops and shorts (I do not own a pair of pants). All of this to end up here with awesome part time jobs we do remotely and happily.

    What I want to leave you with is this: no comparisons. Just be yourself. Don’t think of what Should I or What Do Others Expect and just embrace your desires as you find them.

    Live. That’s the ticket right there. You sound spunky so maybe google Vanlife or check us out on Instagram, you may find your adventure is closer than you think.

    Party On Garth,

    #160538
    LifeInsideJack
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    Peter,

    These are excellent pieces. Thank you for sharing them. As for doors opening where we did not know … welcome to our yesterday. We met with someone who dropped so much good stuff on us we’re still in shock. We don’t know the details but we are firm on the vision.

    Today we spent time talking and envisioning the Result of that conversation and we left all limitation behind including the fact that we have no idea how to make it happen. But, that’s not our concern. That’s for Out There to bring to happen. We meet folks who are guiding us and sharing life with us that we did not know just a few days ago.

    It’s not enough to Wish or Hope That One Day …. picture it. Feel it. Dream Big Dreams and build those things in our minds. Then, watch the pieces fall together in front of you. Then living the life as it has been designed for you is as easy as getting onto a commuter train. Just step onto the platform and Whoooosh !!! You are on your way. All I can do is encourage folks now. As I have seen it, I want to see it for them also. Freedom, is ours for the taking.

    #159962
    LifeInsideJack
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    Facebook gets too familiar with your other online activities. I use it as a means to connect with my Life Coach and reach out to a small group of folks that read my stuff on a Member Group. Other than that I find it frustrating and full of folks that post first and think second. As for Instagram you can find me there, under this handle, as I live mobile and promote the mobile lifestyle to others who are interested in fleeing the cubicle for life under the stars.

    I think realizing that it is time to shut those medias off is a big step at seeing you were once at a particular place in your life and are now moving towards something higher. It’s a recognition that life isn’t posts and cute cat videos. When we choose to live life outside of the box we’ll find few that can understand our words and actions, and of those who do we must reach back and bring them along.

    Good for you, and good for the person you are becoming.

    All the best,

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