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  • September 12, 2018 at 5:55 pm in reply to: Alone #225425
    Lisa
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    Right and I am taking the liberty of speaking for them but they do not outnumber women who only think well of men knowing doing so gets them something in return.

    September 12, 2018 at 12:14 pm in reply to: Alone #225377
    Lisa
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    You can stand women who speak their minds and you put them in all kinds of positions where they have to fight to survive but you will never be able to say you made it on your own. No matter how much people put you on a pedestal…deep down inside you know that.

    You may be able to hurt a lot of other women while you stand in your position but some women will defy you and they are the women you hate the most. You can’t destroy them and that gets on your nerves. Those women remind you that you can’t make it on your own. You need a man to prop you up.

     

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    September 12, 2018 at 11:59 am in reply to: Alone #225369
    Lisa
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    I am really angry now and I hate other women for embracing stupidity and gaining from it.

    September 12, 2018 at 11:52 am in reply to: Alone #225365
    Lisa
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    Every single time I come close to believing that it’s me a woman proves to me yet again how they let men win. It amazes me how many of us truly are wimps.  I am alone because I am strong and independent.

    September 4, 2018 at 2:24 pm in reply to: Alone #224335
    Lisa
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    Thank you Anita.

    July 28, 2018 at 9:28 am in reply to: Alone #219147
    Lisa
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    No women I have met or am likely to meet. Most likely that woman would be heavily criticized. There are a few strong women who accept this burden but not many and certainly not enough. Most women are content to keep the patriarchal cycle going because it benefits them to do so.

    These are the only women I can look to for support but they are very difficult to find or communicate with.

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    July 28, 2018 at 5:44 am in reply to: Alone #219091
    Lisa
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    I think I am understood but few are willing to sacrifice their rewards in the name of integrity so they don’t know what to say to me.

    Integrity is not worth giving up a boyfriend or husband or standing up to them so women who do have and hang on to their integrity have little power and are left alone.

    I have seen many examples of this. Women tolerate too much.

    July 19, 2018 at 6:24 am in reply to: Alone #217619
    Lisa
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    “Supporting” typing correction.

     

    …and yeah I said it.

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    July 19, 2018 at 6:02 am in reply to: Alone #217613
    Lisa
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    There are reasons on my end for that one Anita. You have heard about my life but no you haven’t lived it. You have lived your experience and that is valid but you have not lived mine and this is where I wish I could take anyone who is trying to help me on a journey and see what I lived and then make an assessment.

    1. I value love above everything

    2. I am not for sale, which is what most marriages are based on.

    3. I have been abused by many men. My view of them has been based on what I experienced.

    4. I think for myself and I am stubbornly independent. They don’t like strong women, especially ones who talk about anything beyond having fun, pining for someone, praising misogynistic men. Look at all the women that support that joke in the White house. Because supportung him supports the patriarchy which supports them. They can’t do things on their own.

    July 18, 2018 at 6:50 pm in reply to: Alone #217545
    Lisa
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    Dear Anita

    Are you under the impression that I wouldn’t be nurturing in a relationship? Just a question.

    Oh yes I still daydream, quite often. I feel it is the only place where I can experience these things and I am a part of the world.

    In the mindset I am in right now I am not waiting for him because I know he will never come. When I am feeling better is when I hope there is a chance.

    Lisa

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    July 16, 2018 at 8:22 am in reply to: Alone #216891
    Lisa
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    There is more suffering in honesty than reward.

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    July 16, 2018 at 8:02 am in reply to: Alone #216879
    Lisa
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    I have been living the life that is barely available to me Anita and frankly I am tired of fighting to at least have my empty life as opposed to nothing at all. I have to fight to deserve to be called mediocre.

    Why is a basic good life not available to me? I am just as good as others. I don’t want to be catered to. I want to be thought of as just as good. It just annoys me when some who clearly don’t deserve it are catered to. I don’t demand I be catered to.

    My life is not worth anything to anyone and I am supposed to be ok with that when sell outs and conceited bubbleheads are told how wonderful they are?

    I appreciate you but I can not accept my life. That’s claiming defeat and I am not accepting defeat. I am not going to make things easy for the ones who look down on me.

    I am really bad right now and I have to pretend I’m fine everywhere I go. I can’t find a peaceful place either. I wanted to get out of my room away from women catering to their boyfriends. I am truly amazed how reasonable people can be unreasonable when it comes to their relationships with other people. It’s like they become different people and I was never willing to be blind on behalf of having a relationship.

    I am in a second place that is full of mindless chatter and noise from construction. I can not find peace anywhere. There is no where to go. I am tired of this. I have to suffer for what I fight for I guess. I am just tired of suffering.

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    July 15, 2018 at 5:22 pm in reply to: Alone #216795
    Lisa
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    I will come here because I have no where to go. I don’t know what to say. I can not talk to anyone. This summer is not going well and it’s my favorite season. I am trying to figure out what to do for my birthday that is coming soon and I don’t know what to do.

    You think everyone is the same and I am telling you that some are catered to but ignore what I just wrote because it doesn’t matter.

    I am so upset right now I do not know what to do with myself and if I show anyone that I am upset that will be considered bad behaivor. I erased what I just wrote because it doesn’t matter.

    All I can say is “You lost out.” I say that to the general population. I had/have so much to give and they don’t want it. This country especially is getting the leadership it deserves and I should be proud that I “don’t fit in”. I’m proud that I don’t fit in.

    What to do now though?? I don’t know what to do. There is nothing else I can accompliah besides a roof over my head and it’s all I have to hang on to because there is nothing else. The roof wouldn’t matter so much if there was someone with me.

    I don’t know what to do.

    July 9, 2018 at 8:18 pm in reply to: Alone #216059
    Lisa
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    Dear Anita,

    I can not put together a response I am happy with.

    July 7, 2018 at 10:47 am in reply to: Alone #215803
    Lisa
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    Dear Anita, thank you for offering to help, that is very kind of you. I will elaborate more on my post later on…I have so much to say but have to go to work shortly. Will post again in about 7 hours and will explain.

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