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  • in reply to: Update on my never ending stressful relationship #186651
    Chanelle
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    Hi Alexandra,

     

    you’re most welcome 🙂

     

    I understand what you’re saying. I’ve been through something quite similar around this time last year. My ex boyfriend treated me so awfully and I just felt that I couldn’t let go of him. We had so many plans for the future. The worse he treated me the more i needed him. Then i finally realised enough was enough. I didn’t deserve it.

    Fast forward 7 months, I met who I believe to be the love of my life. He is kind, caring, puts my thoughts and how things make me feel before himself and loves me back just as much as I love him – exactly how it should be. We’ve built even better future plans than the ones I had before!

    I know you feel that it is a waste of three years, but imagine doing this day in day out for the rest of your life…that would truly be a waste. Consider this a learning curve, you’ve experienced this person, both the good and bad but its not for you. Now you know that you wont let anyone else treat you in this way.

    Love yourself enough to let go

    x

    in reply to: Update on my never ending stressful relationship #186313
    Chanelle
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    You’ve heard it before..and you think you can’t do it/ won’t get over him but you will.

    Leave him, for your own health. This person is toxic and will not change I promise you. People can only change if they really really want to.

    You’re wasting your life and contributing to your own depression and anxiety. Do it for yourself, you deserve so much more.

    Sure, you’re going to miss the little boy, but that will also disappear in time. You have to do this for yourself, the more you keep going back the more painful it will be.

    You can do this

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