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Good day, John.
I am really really proud of you that you have decided to step out of your comfort zone and make new friends!
All the best in your endeavors. We are all cheering for you.
Let your story empower others.
Do not let fear touch your heart, and surround yourself with the veil of confidence for being who you truly are.
I see you have a strong sense of justice and it is wonderful to have human beings like yourself in our current society.
Do not undermine yourself, regardless of how bad you think your situation may be. The fact is this: everybody screws up. What differentiates them is how they live each day afterward knowing that they did.
Life will never be how we expect it to be. Appreciate your current self, accept your current circumstances, then let go of the past. Move on with your head held high; because self-depreciating thoughts do nothing but drag you down the stairs you thread in life.
Let me know if you want to continue the conversation.
Best of luck,
It is great that you are thinking for yourself. Very few people manage to bring themselves into the picture when speaking about a lover. As you have mentioned, theoretically, you should discover and love yourself fully first before focusing on another person.
The thing is, life is never that idealistic. Follow your heart. You know what is best for yourself and I’m sure that will be the correct decision to make. Nothing will ever end up perfect, but the worst thing to do is to regret not doing anything at all.
You have a powerful personality. You are definitely not toxic, and give yourself some time to weigh the decisions out.
I am no different, I am a fool who is in love with a dense idiot and it is jeopardizing my internal equilibrium as well. It is all part and parcel of life.
JunnaSeptember 20, 2017 at 8:38 am in reply to: This is a rant, but please feel free to comment, I love to hear what you think. #169477
This is my viewpoint on what you have shared with us (:.
I consider you as someone filled with courage to openly share your story with us all here.
Sometimes, our emotions are very intangible things and it is hard to control them. So my piece of advice is to do what you want without putting in much worry into it. You know your self-worth the best, and you are the captain of your life, you maneuver it however you wish for it to be like.
You are strong.
Thank you for sharing your concerns. Your worries matter a lot to others, and I’m glad you opened up.
What I can suggest to you is now that you know of this man’s character, then steer clear of him. He gives you negative vibes now, does he not? I know this is simpler said than done, but know that it really is not worth it spending time thinking of him any further. Instead, think about yourself and the people who are more significant in your life like your family and friends.
He is now like a thorn that needs to be plucked off before it continues to hurt you any further. Nobody can help you except for yourself in moving on, but let me know what you feel because we all will be here to give you moral encouragement in this journey.
Lots of love,
I’m happy you decided to open up. That was very courageous of you, and let me share with you what my thoughts are.
You sound very stressed. It’s okay, let’s tackle your problems one by one. What you must know is that you aren’t alone in your journey. Everyone is wishing you well, including myself. This is one of the setbacks in your life that you have to be strong to conquer. You can do it, seeing how much you have endured in the past, you’ll continue to do so. As such, put on a smile, take a few deep breaths, and just continue living your life as it is! You are already on the right track, believe me, or not. Keep walking and don’t look back. Yes, have trust in where you are going, and stop doubting yourself, sure? Take it slow and steady, at your own pace.
Another advice is to let go of things that cannot be changed. I know this sounds cliche, but it is true. I am sure there are a lot of things in your life that you would like to change if you could, but appreciate these flaws and love the imperfections. Push yourself to continue to have the courage to face life. Fight on, Robin! Your thoughts are a powerful medium. Let your thoughts empower you.
Remember, you are not alone in this.
Let me know if you have anything else on your mind. 🙂