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October 23, 2013 at 1:26 am #44217CharlotteParticipant
Hi, Sorry to hear the pain you are going through. I have been through similar as my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me via blackberry messenger and I never saw or heard from him again (as he cheated on me and is not married to her).
It was a horrible horrible pain, I went through tears, begging, writing letters, writing emails, stalking on social media, stalking the girlfriend on social media, going out and getting drunk with my friends, I wrote a farewell letter and then I begun to accept it. Its a pretty hard thing to go through but I thought I really loved him with all my heart but it is only until I met my boyfriend who I now own a house with that I realised that was not love. Not the love I know now.
This may not help you, but just go with the stages of pain, listen to sad music, write letters (but preferably don’t send them) and talk it over with your friends and you will soon feel ready to move on.
Thanks my only advice, I don’t regret sending him letters and begging although I am sure I would have come across a lot better and less pathetic if I didn’t. It all helped in the end and hopefully it will help you! I have no need or desire to ever speak to him again, I wish him a happy life in my head but its over, he is not my friend.October 9, 2013 at 5:18 am #43466CharlotteParticipant
I have felt like you before, I have to say everyday I find it easier and more natural to be grateful for what I have. I used to just write lists of what I was grateful for and what made me happy and what I wanted only when I was very down or depressed. Now I do this daily, sometimes in my head but it always helps to write it down.
I do also listen to The secret audio cd in my car, although I think they main aim of that is to Be positive and you will attract what you want.
Hopefully you will get the hand of it very soon 🙂