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I got your point actually I think I will wait for him to speak about this because he is the kind of person who keeps things straight and right I would not like him to suffer while I’m away by me asking him. If it happens naturally it’s another thing if he still wants to keep this for later I’m fine as it is I haven’t had sex life for 3.5 yrs. But we are no way going to split apart due to sex! We made it clear it’s either both of us together or no one else. Very defined.
Thank you for taking time to reply to me. Firstly, I don’t know when we gonna get settled yet. We are both like away from each other haven’t seen him in these 1.5 yrs it’s hard for both of us. UK and US? Nevertheless it’s been a beautiful time together if you know what I mean I realised soon after coming here he is the person for me and I started to love him even more. As far as the intimacy thing he is not been crystal clear about it. It’s his first relationship. I don’t know maybe he is hesitant or something I’m not sure because he is 31 , mature guy I don’t think that he doesn’t want to do it?
From my point this long distance is bringing us closer this is what I feel and for me it’s time because we haven’t planned our wedding yet nothing officially pronounced. But we know it’s about us. Also I’m really very shy when he tells me things I asked him if he wants me to be shy he said yes a bit.
Think this is the current situation. But I also fear that if we do it and he returns to US he will have that urge while I’m away and that won’t be any good. Nothing like trust issues. But still…
Focus on yourself first, try LinkedIn great opportunities for fresh graduates. Take time to review what you did, write a diary seems to be old school but useful.
Write about you, your career, prospects, what you want to be like, describe your life the way you want it to be. It happened with me unknowingly my life changed from worse to good.
Don’t worry you’ll be fine.
JennieApril 21, 2014 at 10:43 am in reply to: I love my best friend, but i dont know whether he do loves me too #55120
Don’t be sad. The way you are talking about Stephan seems that he loves you too. But i think its high time for you to move on. If you are feeling suffocated in your present relationship let it go. Maybe this guy Stephan is hesitating to confess his feelings to you due to the fact that you are already taken. So chill give Stephan some time and meanwhile you talk to your fiance if you think that is not going to work between you both. 🙂
Well carry on, with courage and support of your friends. We are here to advise you. here’s another girl Lucie , who needs our guide and help i think. Let’s find some way out dude.
Well first of be enough strong and bold. I know its quite difficult to forget somebody you loved so deeply. But dude let me tell you one thing. No matter how far you were if she really loved you she would have stayed with you and support you. By now with her attitude you have been able to see her truth. Be grateful you have not yet been married. Just think for a while, what would have been your case after marriage? Just take care of yourself right now. Focus on yourself and who knows the right girl might be waiting for you somewhere. Open the doors of your heart and your mind. Do things that keep you happy. If you are happy, your surroundings would be filled with happiness. Happiness will follow your path. Please keep smiling! 🙂