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  • in reply to: Caught him watching… #106344
    Stephanie B
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    “How many times did you catch him before?” Maybe 3-4 times

    “Do you have a trust level about this with him now?” Well not really, no.

    “Since returning, has your sex life improved?” We did have sex, but I started it and not him, and it wasn’t like it was before. I’m thinking that is because of the unrealistic expectations due to too much porn. Maybe he needs to clear his head of it?

    “Since he would be so glad to have you back?” As I’ve said, I don’t think he really got the picture I did; I was thinking of breakling up, whereas he told me that he knew it was just a fight we can work out. That is why I don’t think he was “glad to have me back”, because he didn’t really understood he could lose me.

    “Do you really feel he means to stop?” Now, I think that this is the most important question. I really do mean he will try to stop, he seemed honest and like he knew he made a mistake, like he knew it was wrong. He said that he knows that this fight is 100% his fault and that he will try to stop. He has the will to stop, and it seems to me that this is really important; the first step to getting rid of an addiction is to WANT to get rid of it.

    in reply to: Caught him watching… #106316
    Stephanie B
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    Hey guys! Today I went on and talked with him, and he told me he won’t be waching anymore. I’ve moved in again to not bother my friend anymore, but he didn’t take our talk very seriously; he didn’t think that our fight was a reason for break up (he WAS serious about not waching it again part). After I’ve asked him why didn’t he came after me when I left, hesaid that he knew he was wrong, but that at the moment he didn’t care because O ha e shouted at him really badly. Sooo what do you think?

    in reply to: Caught him watching… #106095
    Stephanie B
    Participant

    I will have to go there amd get the rest of my things even if he doesn’t come; that will be very unpleasant 🙁

    in reply to: Caught him watching… #106090
    Stephanie B
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    Thank you all. It’s hard, we’ve been together for a long time. He has been there for me when no one else hasn’t, amd that is why I do not take this lightly

    in reply to: Caught him watching… #106089
    Stephanie B
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    I will get my own place; IF this doesn’t end well. And I hope it does. I really do hope he changes.

    in reply to: Caught him watching… #106085
    Stephanie B
    Participant

    Thank you for your amswer, you assumed cocorrectly, I am a woman. So you think I should call him? I just felt so bad because he didn’t even try to stop me leaving. He also has a tendecy to avoid any concersations about feelings, so I think it would be very hard to get him to talk about it 🙁

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