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Matt,
I just didnt want to write 5 pages worth of details so here is the info on that. THe reason for waiting not being an option is because we have already put this off for 2 years due to fears she has. We are both getting up there in age and I dont want to be raising a child when Im 50. I would like to be able to keep up with a young child as Im sure you can understand.
I have already listened to her fears and have tried counselling (Currently in counsel) along with helping her through her fears. But I appreciate the feedback.
Denise,
Thanks for the feedback also. Im kinda leaning in that direction, just worried about raising a child with constant fighting or maybe thats just how couples raise kids? My parents fought all the time when I was growing up.
PathOfPeaceParticipantYou ok Bren? If you wanna vent? I have got the time. I will listen and not judge.
May 9, 2015 at 1:11 pm in reply to: Ditched in love, broken heart, lousy job, no self belief – total mess #76500PathOfPeaceParticipantOh I know A L L about anger/rage. That is something you can break for sure. Gotta find healthy outlets. I myself lift weight, hit the boxing bag, listen to easy going music when I cant do those other things. Music that builds up the spirit. Its something you have to work on every single day so It doesnt overcome you. Also, with rage/anger check what your eating? Sugar alot of times will get my mood down or angry. You eating healthy? Its a must! Give me a box of fried donuts and Ill be breaking things I love 30 minutes later after the sugar crash. Read the ancient texts, The Art Of War. It has nothing but helpful advice on how to overcome anger and people with their matters of conflict. Reading will also calm you down, another title is called THE ART OF PEACE. When you get mad, read a couple pages and it will take your mind off whatever is making you angry AND you will also learn at the same time!
PathOfPeaceParticipantMy advice Kushrs, is to make new friends. Thats the quickest way. 9 to 10 hours on social media everyday and you havent made a billion friends already? Try to find people with common interests and start from there.
PathOfPeaceParticipantThanks everyone for your replies. Becky, I believe you have a good idea. Didn’t think of it that way before.
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