Yes I strongly Agree with you Anita . you are welcome. Every since we are separated she has not thought of calling me .Or  text me. So no need to run after who doesn’t want you to be part of her life.

Thanks so much Anita , and however ,  I am not the only one who is desperately disappointed , I have read so many articles on this forum . I am not in a pain a lone.. Thanks God that we are many.  We had shared with words together.

Thank you Anita.

Dear Anita ,

Thanks a lots dear friend . I am so precious .

Ythe message is,

Dear Ayong,  good morning.  I understand we have got difficult times to understand ourselves due to the fact that we , are being tempted by the devil.

If the world is being full of devil , to deal with people who were be together from the day one. The painful thing on earth is to leave your own innocence son.

Kindly file everything that upsets you on me under the pillow . And u promise u you will never leave your son and go for another man.  Your door is open anytime you wish to see or come back for your.      You are free to.

Anita , kindly correct me the phrase of the message .

Thank you for your cooperation and great hospitality.

Gregory . 

Dear Anita,

You absolutely describe her in very realistic ways of being that girl.

Thank you for your words and smiling at my appreciation to you.

Indeed you one in a million perfect mother who does not get fade up to reply anyone who is in need.

Exactly she is buying her mother’s love ,, ,, and perhaps they are also in the same boat ? because of supporting each other though it’s something bad to hated by the people.

Anita , instead of going to her and tell the two statements you had said to asked her,

Can I just send her SMS  message and she will read it BT herself and wait for the reply.

Anita,  what view do you see on her about this girl who is desperately in need of money all the time?  Do you see future on her?

Will she be happy to where she is targeting to go to?  On the other hand,  this girl does not go along with her mother manipulate sometimes , they things that this woman did to her daughter is by going to witchcraft in order to change her daughter heart and mind.

Everyone has given up and conclusion said let them go to whoever man the need to be with.

Thanks Anita , I am so proud of you mummy.

I try to delete the numbers of my mother in-laws in my phone because I had nothing to do with it because we don’t talk to each other.

May Abba  Father you more things Anita.

Thanks.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

Thanks for the great input you had impacted in my situation.  You are really a wises woman like the King Solomon , the wise man on earth.  Yeah I have taken the responsibility of my beloved Son (Chris Agoth Gregory  ) . He is gonna be my brother , my friend as well as my blood son.  He is 2years and half now,  he is in Nairobi -Kenya he is gonna start baby class next year.

Anita , thanks for the conductive words. You really created some space in my mind. Your Grammatical is amazing and awesome . I know that my English is not perfect. But I can give a trial.

I want this boy,  that her mother ignore to be a Pilot like me . To fly with me as my “first officer ” F/O or called it Co-Pilot at my right in the cockpit.  I want her mother one of the day pointing at her son saying that is my first born son flying Boeing 727, or Boeing 777 dream liner Kenya airway.

My Question is Anita,  what if she come and say I want to be my son?  When I had already lose appetite or interest on her?

What do most women need on earth? ??? Is it a real love from a man who married her? ???

Women feels demeaned when you live her in the house and a man goes out for another woman or a girl.  I had never did anything like that! ! ! I don’t like what is called engaging outside marriage. I think I may appreciate myself though one should not do that.  She told me not date outside,  if you need anything then you will get it from me.

The painful part is that , a woman can’t be share like a shoes or a food.

If I am a twin then God is gonna change things rapidly or gradually. For God and my words.

Thanks Anita.

Back to the point of Inky , yeah true I am not gonna divorce her now but I will when her son is grown up to be a man…. And he has study the case. I acknowledge the cooing of this woman.

dear Inky.

Thanks my dear for the contribution you had done. I think that what I am gonna do.  This world is a confused world whereby you try to show the love with someone but still seeing different things .

Thanks my dear.

1. my wife is a gold digger , she love money a lots.
2. She is too narcissistic to her body,  she does not think of mind or care for me.
3. She doesn’t care about his son,  she only think her mother will be responsible for his son.
4. She love having friends who are boys out there .And when you are married as a woman then there is a different. You are no longer a girl.
5. Whenever I give her money she goes give them to her mother ,, ,  forgetting to provide even a plate  to her house.
6. She is a clubs and hotels attendant . She goes to clubs at night when she go to their house without permission from me . She just go and sleep there,  then from that night she go to clubs. During the day she goes to hotels that we are going to have fun  with friends.

She smoke shasha and she do drink alcohol.

She lie to people that she met with that Iam not married.

Above all these she is a cheater !!!!

Dear Anita,

From the first paragraph of your sentence,  the Judge did not grant a divorce to my wife. They all end up  arguing to each other,  as accordance to the Judge told me.  My father In-laws did not divorce his wife. He just warned his wife to have the boundaries between and perhaps my father in-law conclusion , told the Judge to tell my wife , not to come near,  me anyone or call me over either. This is real bitter. Real ugly. 

Anita , I still love my wife and I need her back regardless of her doom character and lifestyle . i really don’t know sometimes EMOTIONS AND TRUTH LOVE CAN BE CALLED Mr.Y is weak. But the fact is that is pure love. i love this woman like the way I love flying an AIRPLANE or Aircraft.

She was a woman of my heart- to- heart . God is fun sometime to give a person who don’t or feels your feelings.

Back to Anita,  my father in-laws told me not to talk to her (wife) again!  That I should SHUN her to whoever man she want with her mother.  Though I find her on the way with another man then I should not bother to ask her.  But in real sense I can’t dare to leave her like that!

I am confused really what to do! !  I am in a dark time I cannot even know myself.  I had stop Flying because of this issues that is not ending up in a nice or better ways.

Its really  been a years when I’m struggling with such life. All my colleagues are flying and driving cars as per now. I only build a house for my boy.  Anita I’m  25 years and my wife is 24years old.

Hey Anita,  kindly drop your whatsup number her if possible.

This is a hard time for me to deal with.

I am just a son of farmer whom my father is not educated. I tried my best to educate myself since from my primary , High school or college up to my flying school. Guys my mind has a lots of trauma for such a situation is not ending.

I wish I had not born to find such wrong elements humans.

People who makes suicide or stay out from marriage can not be blame. This disease is a danger sickness. Cancer is better you go via hospital and get medicine to be treated.

I tried to listen to music just to keep myself busy but in vain.

Is there any other MEDICINE for this my tiny budhha people,   As well as Anita.

Where is nextstep?  Brandy , Mark, John,   they are nice people as well and they rest in our small group community called Tinybuddha.