Hi Twee. Can I ask if you are getting what you need out of all of this? I mean. It’s more than his needs and the kids needs. What do you need? Perhaps you need a faithful man that is a provider for your family. One you know only has your family’s best interest at heart. One that you can trust not to hurt you. Can your husband be that man? If he was in the past than maybe he can find his way back there. Maybe counseling would help. Be true to yourself and best wishes.

Love hurts. But make sure you are being true to yourself. Sounds like he has a lot on his plate. If taking a breather is what he needs right now than I suggest that’s what you do. He just may come out the other side of this a free man and all yours. Good luck.