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  • January 10, 2015 at 10:27 pm #71015
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    Also, perhaps you need a new passion or figure out why you’ve lost passion for freelancing in the first place? Your boyfriend is with you because he likes you, if you see how you’ve changed to be an issue perhaps bring it up to him, relationships thrive on good communication, especially if this is bothering you because then you definitely won’t be giving it your all in the relationship.

    January 10, 2015 at 10:20 pm #71012
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    Hi Dream1992,

    This is a super late reply but I will write anyways.

    Most feelings and experiences in life are fleeting. Take for example, a couple who has just recently gotten married. They may have a “honeymoon period” where they are absolutely crazy about each other and are over the moon for each other. Over time, that honeymoon craze will fade but it evolves into a more mature love that’s longer lasting and permanent. As will be your spirituality. I consider myself to be a spiritual person, there are moments that I feel connected to the universe and on a higher level, spiritually but there are still times that I feel rock bottom and as if I’m at square one sometimes but those feelings are just fleeting but my belief in spirituality will forever be a part of me. I bet it is for you too. Don’t be discouraged that you currently don’t feel the way you did when you first felt enlightened. Take it as a sign that you just need some spiritual guidance right now to push you in a better direction. Your feelings about spirituality will change and evolve over time, just like you will.

    Also, have you thought about talking to someone? It can be a clergy member, a counselor, anyone who can help you on your spiritual path and to better your overall life. I wish you the best 🙂

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    January 10, 2015 at 10:08 pm #71010
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    Hi vidalevi,

    In my opinion I don’t believe you should allow another person to dictate such a big decision that you’re going to make about your life. It seems like you’re giving them control of the situation by making them the reason that you want to move. I don’t mean to sound harsh so I apologize if I do. I understand first-hand that encountering crushes can be difficult but don’t change jobs or start fresh simply because of one person.

    On the flip side, you only have one life to live and if you’re truly bored at this job and the area you live in having a fresh start wouldn’t hurt. Is it just the job you’re bored of? Are you considering a career change?

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    January 10, 2015 at 10:04 pm #71009
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    When we think about past memories that are good, they help us find the courage we need to conquer future issues by looking back on past successes. However, the past is not a place one should live in and believe that our past accomplishments are the only things we ever will accomplish because that is self defeating. I see the contradiction in which you discuss, we try to repress bad memories but allow the better ones to surface. But I believe we only do that for a purpose, which is motivation.

    January 10, 2015 at 9:52 pm #71007
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    Thank you for replying, Inky.

    I felt disrespected when I got this kind of news via text. Like I didn’t matter. But I’m thankful to no longer have my ex in my life. I actually met with my friend tonight about what she and others were saying behind my back, it seemed like they’re mostly concerned about me because I’ve changed over the last few months.

    I need to become more organized when it comes to school and classes, you’re right. Being unorganized is the main source of my school stress. If I had a more organized approach and used it in practice, I would probably enjoy school a lot more than I did in the past.

    And you’re also right when it comes to my love life, I’m tired of making the extra effort I’m going to let them come to me. This is kind of personal but I actually had a dream about my crush walking away from me and a bunch of girls followed him in the dream… interesting.

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