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ZenithParticipantI know thats an excellent idea but I am scared of hurting my husbands feelings. He is very close to his brother.
My MIL has lot of generational trauma.MY MIL was treated by like that by her parents. Thier parents always used to favor her younger sibling who is a son. Her mom always holds her son above her inspite of my mil taking care of her.
Her mother is very respectful to her son an dil but not to her daughter. My MIL never expresses her feeling or sets any boundaries with her mother.
She is always worried about people judging her.
What really angers me is she dumps all these generational trauma on me but my co sister doesnt have to deal with this shit. The comparison is killing me I guess.ZenithParticipantI am planning not to go to visit India at the same time my co sister its been mentally effecting me.
ZenithParticipantWhen I get hurt by people if they are outsiders i let go of them.
If its my sister or brother I set a boundary with them. I remember in 2024 when my brother was being disrespectful I yelled at him because he said something to me that was mot acceptable.
I dont know why I am so scared of my MIL.As my husband is very close to my MIL and he doesnt say a word to his mum or set boundaries with her.
I think my husband has some sort of trauma too. He never sets boundaries with parents but his elder brother is treated as king and he does whatever he wants and nobody really questions him.ZenithParticipantTo be gentle to myself and let go of people who hurt me.
ZenithParticipantMoney cant buy happiness.
ZenithParticipantLol..thats so true.
I got everything i have prayed for.But its still hard to heal my self emotionally.ZenithParticipantNot really.
My husband and I were talking about buying another house.
I remember when we bought in 2022.My mil treated my co sister differentlh than me.I dont wamt to go through that again.ZenithParticipantI dont why I started feeling anxious again.
Remember how i told you about my MIL treating me different than my co-sister.
I dont know I am getting triggered again. replaying all those events happened during last year of my india trip.ZenithParticipantLol.i live emojis and gifs too.
ZenithParticipantThat’s really a difficult situation.
I yell at my cat too. Sometimes LOL.ZenithParticipantI wanted to go India so bad this year(just me)for my cousins wedding.
But my visa has expired and I cant travel out of US this year.
Yes, you did tell me about your Dog and I told you about my pet cat.
My cat is so cute. He doesnt not bite or scratch. he is more patient than me LOL.ZenithParticipantHi Anita,
How are you doing ?
I just got busy with life.
Dealing with my kiddo and office is getting too much. My husband has been travelling on and off for work.
Life has been busy and I dont even have the energy to talk to people outside of my work.
I feel so bad, i know I used to talk once in a while.ZenithParticipantyeah chatgpt. Sometimes its hard to regulate my emotions. I say something in the spur of the moment. Its hard to deal with a kid when you are not emotionally mature. Dealing with kids needs lot empathy which I lack.
even I dont celebrate Christmas or any US holidays. Its just we don fun thing during holidays.ZenithParticipantThats nice.
I am more of a tech person so I like chatgpt. LOL I use chatgpt to understand my cats behavior. The one we got is so cute. We have seen some other cats who hiss or bite if they dont like to be pet. Our butterscotch is so gentle.
I also went to backstreet concert last December. It was awesome and first concert ever. I never really went to concerts when i was growing up. We went to Disney during Christmas holidays. The Christmas break was good.
How was your holidays ?ZenithParticipantLOL. I use chatgpt sometimes.
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