“A hard fall means a high bounce…if you're made of the right material.” -Unknown
I recently saw the movie Soul Surfer about Bethany Hamilton, the professional surfer who lost an arm in a shark attack in 2003 when she was just 13 years old. This would be difficult for anyone, but especially someone so young.
Bethany lost 60% of her blood that day, and after turning down a lifelike but non-functional prosthetic arm, soon realized she had to relearn almost everything.
What kept her going was knowing she didn't lose everything. Lots of things were different, but lots of things were still possible. Because of that belief, Bethany has continued to compete in national surf championships while traveling all over the world to help other people dealing with adversity.
As someone with a lifelong phobia of sharks, I can't say for certain I'd get back in the water after an attack that took a limb. But I know that when everything seems challenging and nothing makes sense, it's tremendously helpful to remember that possibility starts with the strength and courage to recognize it.
If you're dealing with an obstacle that seems insurmountable, remember that things are rarely what they seem. This can be your undoing–or it can be a reminder that you're stronger than you realize and can do a lot more than you think.
The question is: Are you ready to stop dwelling and start doing?