@Valora,

I haven’t heard of that term before but I will actually do some research into this this evening. So far I have done a lot of reading into different attachment types and the psychology around it all to try and better understand myself and my behavioural patterns.

You do sound like you are getting on pretty well though! I realise it isn’t always flowers and rainbows and that you do probably still have moments in which you feel down but you come across as someone who is able to now think rationally and therefore pass on rational and insightful advice! I too hope that one day I am able to respond in just that manner! Right now it seems everything I do is driven by my heart, or should I say constantly at battle with my heart!