Dear Katie,

your cousins behavior strikes me as very strange. How is your nose her business? Does she want to become a surgeon one day?Basically she tells you that you are not good enough again and again. Not a nice person to have contact with, is she? How is your relationship with her otherwise, do you talk/ meet often? Did you ask her to stop talking / obsessing about your nose? How did she react?

Also some weeks ago there was a thread here about nose jobs gone wrong. I am not pro/against beauty surgery, its allways the individual that decides. But this is an example of how things can go badly, I am sure lightsource won’t mind that I share the link here. https://tinybuddha.com/topic/nose-surgery/