Katie,

Us humans inevitably compare ourselves with others.  It is part of our evolutionary psychological makeup.  You are not the most physically beautiful woman as defined by our culture.  99.9% are not either.  As anita suggested, deal with that.  Cultivate the inner beauty.

Rather focus on being attractive to others, find ways of enjoying yourself.  The more joy you have in your life, the more light you project out into the world, the more desirable you become as human.  I found that how I embrace life (“dance like no one is watching”), the more people I attract into my life who want to be/know me.

What are your passions?  interests?  things make you smile, bring you joy?  What does fun look like to you?

Do them.

Mark