Dear Anita,

Lets see, after she was having some issues with the man of the affair, perhaps he no longer was speaking to her.

She was on the floor crying, inconsolable.  I think I either was called down by my sister, or had just come home.

And she said those exact words to me – in our language, rough translation.  The sense of, who is going to help me now..only you can.

I did not believe this to make me feel special – it was very painful. at this time i felt wow – my poor mother, how can i help her