Dear Anita

I’ve went back to read your replies about assertiveness and how to make yourself respected and how you practice it

When I am being intentionally disrespected: In social situations, I used to not notice when it happened

What I’m curious about is… You said that once you didn’t notice fast when disrespect on you happened but that now you don’t have problems asserting yourself if it’s the case. What I want to know is, what makes you notice now when are you disrespected?

I know ive already asked a similar specific question but the answer wasn’t very clear