@Rhaenys can you tag me with @Sammy1 if you need advice because I’d hate to miss your post and leave you waiting if I don’t pop on myself.

Well I think overall you should do what you feel is needed for yourself, if he is causing you harm to your mental health then obviously don’t put yourself in that situation.

I am a very flexible person in general so my boundaries would be different to most. I like to see things with empathy before drawing a conclusion.

If you enjoyed his company and he was otherwise courteous you should give him a chance, sometimes like I said to @Dannydan our FEARS can make us self sabotage and we end up giving up too soon. If with a chance he continued this tardy behaviour then obviously leave it there, the thing to remember is you’re still getting to know each other if he doesn’t instinctively have the thought to call then you can only communicate that is something you need rather than instantly expect it. If he is really interested and invested he will take that on board and adjust his behaviour. If he doesn’t then you know he can’t meet your needs so you stop. Hope this helps you Rhaenys.

Well done on your journey so far!